A question about adultery

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JohnB said:
It seems to me, some of you think just having sexual desires is a sin. "Teen hormones affect teenagers' moods, emotions, and impulses as well as their body. The mood swings that teens experience are caused by fluctuations in estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone—the sex hormones. These same teen hormones will also affect the way they think about dating and sex. ".....this is why during the time of Jesus, they married at the time of puberty. GOD gave us hormones for a reason and it wasn't to stifle them.
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Indeed God made one man and one woman to have sex and that is the aceptable way of sex and is not a sin However don't let them make that an excuse of their hormones for doing the most demonic sins especially of the high sexual sins that the Bible clearly states are worthy of the death penalty like having multiple sexual partners, divorce and remarriage, cheating, homosexuality, transexuality, etc.. If anything it's more of a testimony against them because they admit that God made them to have sex largely to have children, and that there is nothing wrong with them having sex and having children with their ONE since even human development revolves around hitting sexual maturity to have children. Therefore do they testify against themselves that instead of perform God's commands and stay loyal to the first one that they had sex with and love eachother and have a family and childen that they instead played eachother to work whoredoms and deceits and sell the future generations and the land out to the curses of God. Oh how the generations that God hates lie to themselves, their lovers, and God, and they have no shame about it. But be of good cheer, the wicked won't prevail much longer, already God has stood up and begun passing his severe judgements against entire nations and generations, Holy shall be his name, Faithful and True is our King, PRAISE JESUS!
 
FollowingtheWay said:
I really struggle with loving the outwardly religious, the ones who turn the gospel into a system to rules, tip and technique to make the faith something like a rule book to follow rather than being transformed. void of the spirit. I can have great conversations with the guy who was a former drug addict, murderer or adulterous person who come forward kneeling at the alter praying for God to be changed internally. I love that. I really do. I think it’s so beautiful to see happen where former mobsters, or tough skinned emotionless Biker dudes burst into tears for their savior. Good stuff. That is God changing hearts live.
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AMEN!
 
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FollowingtheWay said:
I really struggle with loving the outwardly religious, the ones who turn the gospel into a system to rules, tip and technique to make the faith something like a rule book to follow rather than being transformed.
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We musty consider one of two issues revolving here, the first being born into a family and the Doctrine that surrounded their Faith base. And second, those who grew up never doing as we are instructed to do, challenge the doctrines we're being taught, to see, if they really match to Scripture, especially, ONE VERSE out of complete context, Doctrines.
void of the spirit.
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Let's think seriously about this here. We are talking about People who think God has pre-selected who goes where. There's nothing to be Spiritual about going around thinking, hmmm, God most likely is Sending that ONE to Hell and well, this One here, hmmmm, I'm on the Fence about?
I can have great conversations with the guy who was a former drug addict, murderer or adulterous person who come forward kneeling at the alter praying for God to be changed internally.
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Yeah, they have nothing to hide. They are not a Well Trained Church Goer who acts the act, does the motions perfectly, Spiritually Dead Inside.
I love that. I really do.
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AMEN!
I think it’s so beautiful to see happen where former mobsters, or tough skinned emotionless Biker dudes burst into tears for their savior. Good stuff. That is God changing hearts live.
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AMEN!
 
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I truly believe when done right, the act of having sex and becoming one, is as close to heaven as you can get while on earth.
 
JohnB said:
I truly believe when done right, the act of having sex and becoming one, is as close to heaven as you can get while on earth.
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That's a pretty low and shallow view of heaven.

In the meantime....
Can't you find something else to do with your hands?
 
JohnDB said:
That's a pretty low and shallow view of heaven.

In the meantime....
Can't you find something else to do with your hands?
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GOD seemed to think it was important, he said it was not good for man to be a lone and the two shall become one. Why do you think the angels in Genesis took wives?
 
JohnB said:
GOD seemed to think it was important, he said it was not good for man to be a lone and the two shall become one. Why do you think the angels in Genesis took wives?
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You have no idea what you are talking about.

Just because you have sex doesn't mean that you are not alone. I know some people who have lots of sex but are utterly alone.
 
JohnDB said:
You have no idea what you are talking about.

Just because you have sex doesn't mean that you are not alone. I know some people who have lots of sex but are utterly alone.
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As I said, when done right with the right person. They are not becoming one with the other person.
 
JohnB said:
I truly believe when done right, the act of having sex and becoming one, is as close to heaven as you can get while on earth.
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Ow I’m sure it’s possible to get a heaven like experience in that department with a husband and wife who are walking with God . But I think we also have to come to terms with the partial nature of this current life. I think heaven shows up in just fleeting moments or glimpses that are so quickly vaporized in our fallen reality though . We get a quick taste of Eden and then at the blink of an eye it’s gone. We’re far too broken in our sexuality and there is so much healing that would have to take place there it might take a lifetime to redeem and heal it still to never experience the fullness of what God really meant for us at creation. We can’t sneak back into the garden sadly . Satan has attacked ,marred and disfigured us there in our sexuality so bad because that is where we reflect Christ and His bride the church best. Nothing angers Satan more that watching a husband and wife walking faithfully in the path of redemption that God offers us. So satan doubles down on his efforts,sets everything in his power against human sexuality and marriage to destroy the marriage because of his jealousy about how much that intimate relationship mirrors God and Satan hates anything that resembles God especially us. He can’t destroy us but he can mar the image and distort or pervert it so badly we get the typical relational disappointments or worse. But if the idea of intimacy between a husband and wife is being at its core being fully known and fully explored and God meant intimacy for good because sex was intended to happen pre fall. It’s a sure bet we will experience some kind of never ending intimacy experience in heaven. I rather look forward to it. 😜
 
JohnB said:
So the two becoming one, is to be avoided?
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I thought you said you've never been married right? The meaning is really pretty simple,,, if you commit adultery your first thought is you have betrayed your spouse. In all reality you have betrayed your whole family and they will never see you the same again, that is your father in heaven is the first family member you betrayed(most forget him) and then your spouse and if you have children them also and you'll really have a difficult time getting them to look at you the same way again.
 
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JohnB said:
I truly believe when done right, the act of having sex and becoming one, is as close to heaven as you can get while on earth.
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Lol, you're close actually. When done correct, yes, it is the symbol of God and the Kingdom becoming one, which is of course the Ultimate Prophecy, of which we are the scions of their union, Praise Jesus.
 
JohnB said:
GOD seemed to think it was important; he said it was not good for man to be alone and the two shall become one. Why do you think the angels in Genesis took wives?
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First off, God said to be fruitful and increase. That is what sex is for, not just to get your rocks off the guy.
 
CS1 said:
First off, God said to be fruitful and increase. That is what sex is for, not just to get your rocks off the guy.
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GOD said the 2 shall become 1. That was before he said "Be fruitful and multiply" The Song of Solomon is a whole book about sex, not one mention of having children. If you have 3 or 4 kids do you stop having sex?
 
iamsoandso said:
I thought you said you've never been married right? The meaning is really pretty simple,,, if you commit adultery your first thought is you have betrayed your spouse. In all reality you have betrayed your whole family and they will never see you the same again, that is your father in heaven is the first family member you betrayed(most forget him) and then your spouse and if you have children them also and you'll really have a difficult time getting them to look at you the same way again.
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WOW, from your point of view I should off myself. LOL
 
JohnB said:
So the two becoming one, is to be avoided?
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You see, this is how Satan presented the Question to Eve.
But the Question you choose to avoid is:
16 Or do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her?

here, Paul, is saying the very Act of Sex, even with a Prostitute, or One Night Affair, is TWO becoming ONE.

So, to Your Question, if you don't plan on Marrying Her, KEEP YO hands OFF of her!

In the situation Paul is describing, in Verse 16, or just random acts of Sex like one night hookups, they are NOT the Example of what TWO becoming ONE is what God Commanded for us.

So, now, it is ALL about Your Intent for these Questions to justify your uncontrollable urges.
 
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JohnB said:
WOW, from your point of view I should off myself. LOL
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Another commandment is honor your father and your mother which was a really tough one but as I am about to die it occurs to me that in mine life they were the only ones who loved me. They always gave the better advice to me and the friends I had would laugh when we were talking and joke about the things we should do instead. It all made sense then that my father and my mother never said I should do this or that like other people do. It's like in all the things they were saying they were trying to keep me out of trouble and looking forward all the way to the judgement day. I knew then that other people might give ill advice with no regard towards looking forward to that end but my father and mother always did. Just makes too much sense now and it makes me wish I would have saw it in the beginning. I suppose it's because my father and mother loved me and the others did not and God was trying to show that to me all along.
 
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The_Watchers_2017 said:
You see, this is how Satan presented the Question to Eve.
But the Question you choose to avoid is:
16 Or do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her?

here, Paul, is saying the very Act of Sex, even with a Prostitute, or One Night Affair, is TWO becoming ONE.

So, to Your Question, if you don't plan on Marrying Her, KEEP YO hands OFF of her!

In the situation Paul is describing, in Verse 16, or just random acts of Sex like one night hookups, they are NOT the Example of what TWO becoming ONE is what God Commanded for us.

So, now, it is ALL about Your Intent for these Questions to justify your uncontrollable urges.
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I just want Christians to stop hammering singles about "thinking about sex is a sin" or that masterbation is a sin, neither of them are. Some Christians have to use verses taken out of context to support their opinions. The message from the church should be what Paul and Jesus said, if you want to have sex, get married. Stop putting a guilt trip on singles about sex.
 
JohnB said:
I just want Christians to stop hammering singles about "thinking about sex is a sin" or that masterbation is a sin, neither of them are. Some Christians have to use verses taken out of context to support their opinions. The message from the church should be what Paul and Jesus said, if you want to have sex, get married. Stop putting a guilt trip on singles about sex.
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Wow sex answer man, such insight. I can tell you've truly thought a lot about sex.
 
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