Hmm "The steps of a man are ordered by the lord" and delight in the lord He will give you the desire of your heart, Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, And He shall bring
it to pass. Were not slaves nor are we puppets

I see the direction as keeping us on the right/safe path since we are in a fallen world. What oh makes Him the best is...you can talk and even debate with Him and He listens. You can say.. I want to go this way.. He will say sure maybe but.. you can still say I would like to go this way and He will say ok. As He told one "If you do this it will be very hard" . A choice the man didn't have to make yet the lord was still guiding his path. So much more to "our steps being ordered"
Steps I understand but.. in your post fruits was said what 8 times. Yet you talked about knowing you are always saved. I don't see that in your post at all. Salvation is not something I question. Always saved or can lose is not something anyone can prove in scripture. Not something I care to just speculate.