Is it possible to be presented with an exquisite, no strings attached gift of infinite value, whose only requisite is that you open it?Accepting the gift is not but trying to invoke or lay claim to it BY your accepting of it, is. Anything
that must be done by someone to get it, makes it into a work regardless of how little or how much is required.
The Bible describes it not only as a gift, but as a free gift. That means it is PLACED into one's possession by God
with the intervention or action of man neither necessary nor possible.
You are desirous to take the title of Saviour away from Christ and place it upon yourself.
It's not complicated.
The best advise in the world is worthless, unless one has faith in its wisdom, changes course (repentance), and applies it to their thinking and actions.