So you think its better to tollerate toxic and or abusive behavior, or its better to set up some good healthy boundaries for the promotion of growth?
i think it’s better for us all to accept the truth that we’re in the same boat as those we try to judge unworthy of Jesus and stop judging each other
“for
all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;”
Romans 3:23 KJV
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and
so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:”
Romans 5:12 KJV
“What then? are we better than they? No, in no wise: for we have before
proved both Jews and Gentiles, that they are all under sin; as it is written,
There is none righteous, no, not one:”
Romans 3:9-10 KJV
“But
the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that
the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.”
Galatians 3:22 KJV
“
to declare, I say, at this time
his righteousness: that he might be just, and the justifier of him which believeth in Jesus.”
Romans 3:26 KJV
I think brother you have the order backwards is all we don’t come to God after we’ve become right we come to Jesus because we have finally realized we’re wrong and the only way for us to be saved is to truly believe in him and hear what he has to say about everything after all it’s only he who can give eternal life and notice who he welcomes and pulls close and who he constantly rebukes and corrects
a what I’m saying is IF you are a church leader at your church a pastor , elder ect someone with authority in your small church group then you would want to pull the person aside and have a discussion with them share some scripture with them about “ being divisive “ really discuss with them because you care about the person and want to make the. Aware that what they are doing isn’t acceptable
aid they accept it and repent the issue is solved and you’ve won a brother over. If they just keep on , then you’d want to get a couple other elders or pastor maybe one of the persons closest friends in the church and again privately take him aside and do the same thing with him you and the others trying to our shade him by the lord word nd your care for them explain why it’s not acceptable ect
air they repent you’ve solved the issue and won your brother over led them to
repentance at that point again if this is even your role
being the head or authority ofnthe church group your going to want to get together with the rest of the leaders d make a decision bout it prayerfully and with consideration against the gospel
what you have read there is not for each person to be casting people out of the church there’s a very explained process it’s even patterned in the law “ by
two or three witnesses every matter shall be established”
Its not for one brother to be accusing and excommunicating another that’s not going to help and infact is also going to divide e church much worse because everyone isn’t going to feel like you do decisions like that are why churches had ordered leadership who are proven worthy to make such judgements over the flock that they labored to gather together
all im saying brother is consider what the gospel says about judging people when you aren’t worthy either without Jesus mercy towards you notice don’t want to judge someone who’s struggling or you perceive isn’t worthy because of some behavior you noticed
but if you don’t want to deal with any certain person don’t , you know ? Just realize that’s not how Jesus is