For me re reading and re reading and re reading the word, and praying and praying and praying hasn't helped me much. Which is why i started looking to bible teachers etc to get help. As far as I can tell, I'm not resisting sin enough. Which I think means, that I'm probably predestined for Hell. You see, it seems to me, that first a person must asks Christ to save him, but after that you got maintain your salvation by avoiding the sins listed here:
1 Corinthians 6:9-20
9 Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
Not just these. They are just examples. To make a point. The point is, do not listen to false teachers tell you that you can keep doing such things and still go to heaven, or inherit the kingdom of God, (or have eternal life, or be saved from the judgment to come, or be saved, same thing)
People who have been born again / regenerated by the Spirit of Christ living in them, do not need a bible teacher to explain that they should no longer be doing these things. They will know this before they even get through reading the bible for themselves the first time. They will know that these things must go by the Spirit of Christ that lives in them.
And that same Spirit will teach them so that when they hear a man say that you can do these things and still go to heaven, even if they are quoting scriptures out of context, the Spirit within the saved believer will tell him not to be deceived by such nonsense.
It's not complicated.
Anyone who is trying to make it complicated could be just pretending to not understand when they really do. Repent or perish. That is simple. But for the one who does not feel ready to quit a favorite sin yet, they will want to talk about it some more.
Not willing to completely turn their backs on faith in Christ they will pretend to be confused and need more teachings about how this whole sanctification thing works. They are not confused. They are procrastinating. Repent or Perish. Have Faith in God.
Sin lies at the door, it wants to master you, but you must master it. Resist the devil submit to God and the devil will flee.
God has made a way of escape for every temptation, believe that and speak the Word.
FAITH. SPEAK FAITH. NOTHING ELSE.