When I realized I am a sinner in need of salvation, and learned that Jesus died on the cross for my sins so that I could be saved...I called upon the Lord Jesus for salvation. What was my part? Realizing that I'm going to hell without Jesus. You call that saving yourself? It's the complete opposite. It's realizing I cannot do anything to save myself from my sins. I need a Savior.
I call that being led by the Lord to Salvation. Given the Gift of Righteousness and Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ.
I am NOT saying that we don't have to do things and understand things in order to be saved. What I am saying is that it is God who initiates ALL the steps leading to Salvation.
YOU didn't come up with this Great Wisdom that CAUSED God to save you. God gave you Revelation in the Knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ as His Gift, drawing you to Salvation.
Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
Humility and Gratitude is what we learn when we gain wisdom and revelation in Christ. Given as His Gifts.