Perhaps, if given the chance to start all over again, I might try playing the game a little differently. Perhaps I might try stepping out of myself and living my life in third person. i.e. If I were outside of Oyster67, and I knew a good and all-powerful God were watching him, what things would I direct him to do, say, and pray each day?
I know that God eagerly anticipates our every move, hoping that we will act in a way that He can use to bless us and further His Kingdom.
Jeremiah
29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
29:12 Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you.