Matthew 25 is a parable. 1 Thess. 4 and Rev. 14 are not parables.
Matthew 24 is not a gathering in heaven. Compare Matthew 24 and Mark 13.
Matthew 24:31
31And he shall send his angels with a great sound of a trumpet, and they shall gather together his elect
from the four winds, from one end of heaven to the other.
Mark 13:27
27And then shall he send his angels, and shall gather together his elect
from the four winds, from the uttermost part of the earth to the uttermost part of heaven.
As anyone can see from a simple comparison of the same exact event in Matthew 24:31 and Mark 13:27, the "four winds" is a reference to literally every direction. Wherever the elect are they will be gathered.
To prove that, observe Rev. 7:1
Revelation 7:1
1And after these things I saw four angels standing
on the four corners of the earth, holding the four winds of the earth, that the wind should not blow on the earth, nor on the sea, nor on any tree.
See that now? The four winds means refers to everywhere. Heaven mentioned in the Olivet Discourse, is talking about the sky, the clouds, the Earth's atmosphere. It isn't talking about the heaven where God's throne is.
Please utilize a Strong's concordance when you aren't sure. Don't just make things up or make assumptions as that is dangerous and misleading.