It is a first truth.
Pastors are called to preach and teach. You cannot do that without speaking.
1Ti 2:7 Whereunto I am ordained a preacher, and an apostle, (I speak the truth in Christ, and lie not
a teacher of the Gentiles in faith and verity.
1Ti 2:8 I will therefore that men pray every where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting.
1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
1Ti 2:10 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.
1Ti 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
1Ti 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
Paul is clearly speaking on what he doesn't care for, not what Lord demands. Verse 12 is clear enough on plus in verse 9 Paul is against women wearing gold, pearls or anything that is costly as well as not having broided hair which means braided hair.
Do you agree with Paul on those things also? That means no gold which would include wedding rings, which are usually of gold and costly. He also thinks women "shamefacedness" which means to have downcast eyes in bashfulness. That rules out any smiling or laughing. Hopefully Pastor doesn't tell a joke lest he cause women to shame themselves by reacting.