The confusion is really not this OP's absurd doctrine.
What is it ????? is this...
Who decided for the Body of Christ that J. Calvin and J. Arminius, have decided for the "body of Christ", what we have to believe or not?
Who decided this for you???
All these churches and all these forum members who can rant endlessly about Mary, Calvin's teaching, Arminius's teaching, water baptism, commandments, and what the Pope said.......yet, if you asked them to explain the "blood atonement", they'd have to go to wikepedia to try to figure it out to then post and pretend they knew it all along.
And if you asked them.....>"What is the Preaching of the Cross"......that Paul said Christ sent him and me and you to DO.......they'd have no idea, and would have to go to wikipedia, once again.....to then cut and paste and PRETEND they knew all along.
And about that "pre-destined to be conformed, according to the Foreknowledge of God" ......that has been twisted by heretics to teach the LIE that God chooses some to be born so that they are burned in the lake of fire, having no option to be able to trust in Christ and go to Heaven.
These heretics teach that God only gives the Cross for SOME. These deceived teach that Jesus's Blood is not offered to ALL.
And what ive noticed, is that this "some" who are the ELECT who teach this theological vomit...... its always them and their family and church who are the Elect.........but probably not you or your family.
For you and your family and your church, its 50/50 if you are LUCKY.
Just remember that this predestined to burn in hell doctrine.... is anti-God, anti-Christ, and anti-Cross.
Dont let them get you caught up in it,.... as this heresy is one of the Devil's best he ever created and he will blind you with it as well...
Romans 9 teaches firmly against what you're espousing here
from BibleGateWay
10 Not only that, but Rebekah’s children were conceived at the same time by our father Isaac. 11 Yet, before the twins were born or had done anything good or bad—in order that God’s purpose in election might stand: 12 not by works but by him who calls—she was told, “The older will serve the younger.”[
d] 13 Just as it is written: “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.”[
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14 What then shall we say? Is God unjust? Not at all! 15 For he says to Moses,
“I will have mercy on whom I have mercy,
and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.”[
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16 It does not, therefore, depend on human desire or effort, but on God’s mercy. 17 For Scripture says to Pharaoh: “I raised you up for this very purpose, that I might display my power in you and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth.”[
g] 18 Therefore God has mercy on whom he wants to have mercy, and he hardens whom he wants to harden.
19 One of you will say to me: “Then why does God still blame us? For who is able to resist his will?” 20 But who are you, a human being, to talk back to God? “Shall what is formed say to the one who formed it, ‘Why did you make me like this?’”[
h] 21 Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for special purposes and some for common use?
22 What if God, although choosing to show his wrath and make his power known, bore with great patience the objects of his wrath—prepared for destruction? 23 What if he did this to make the riches of his glory known to the objects of his mercy, whom he prepared in advance for glory— 24 even us, whom he also called, not only from the Jews but also from the Gentiles? 25 As he says in Hosea:
“I will call them ‘my people’ who are not my people;
and I will call her ‘my loved one’ who is not my loved one,”[
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Notice verse 22. Not to mention Ephesians 2. A person dead in their transgressions and sins can't make a decision to leave their sin