How do you meet other Christian women during Covid?

[Kauko]

Hei herkamer not that fast ! Speak with knowledge ! If you ever checked my own profile your entire post goes to bin. With respect.

 

[cinder]

She didn't offer anything, and I will bet she's not a godly woman. I don't mean it with disrespect, but the language used here isn't used by women of Christ. She basically repeated what I said, but only called what I said dumb because she wasn't the first to say it. The type of place I told you about where you can meet Christian singles is a good place to find them. And every place I had gone to that either offers dance lessons or just dancing in general, I had found out a lot of these people are Christians and I've known for quite some time. And if ballroom dancing isn't your thing, that's cool. Make sure to get out into the world, though, and don't jump into anything recklessly. Even if you go to a place that I suggested and don't find them, at least you met new people and potentially made new friends.

The user in question is neither female nor (so far at least) a great example of godliness. But I will say I think there may be a misunderstanding between formal dance class lessons and dancing and clubbing kind of dancing going on here.

 

[herkamer63]

The user in question is neither female nor (so far at least) a great example of godliness. But I will say I think there may be a misunderstanding between formal dance class lessons and dancing and clubbing kind of dancing going on here.

Well that's what it is. It's not club dancing, it's ballroom. I would never do clubs. Just as a bad, if not worse, than a dive bar setting.

 

[herkamer63]

Hei herkamer not that fast ! Speak with knowledge ! If you ever checked my own profile your entire post goes to bin. With respect.

The sentiment is still there and it can also apply to godly women out there. Heck, it can apply to any godly person for that matter, with the only real change is don't try to please an ungodly person, like this, by changing your ways, especially when they're unhappy with their own lives and they try to drag others down with them.

But to be fair, the only thing I'll add is that I do ballroom dancing, which is probably where there's confusion. Club dancing isn't my thing and never will. That would be one other type of place I'd avoid, probably even more so than a dive/frat bar. Still, it doesn't change the fact that women love to dance, especially ballroom dancing. It shows them off and they feel elegant while they are being led. And a lot of women attend these places. It's fun, great exercise, and you meet new people. So there's the clarification.

Other than that, no, my big post doesn't go down, and, ladies and gentlemen, this goes to show that trolls are everywhere. I was just unfortunate I had someone dissatisfied with my answer and tried to tear it apart. And don't ever take dating advice from people like this person, anyway. Just the way they talk, they would lead you astray and you'll never be able to land a date. The advice I gave to men is good because it's the advice that other men with a ton of dating experience had given. This guy (or whatever he is) probably doesn't have a woman he's seeing. If he is, he's probably a beta. I feel bad for him, if he is, because godly men are confident and stand strong on what they believe and don't give in to the whims of feminist ideology. So I take nothing back.

Again, I apologize to the author of this thread.

 

[Lynx]

Hei herkamer not that fast ! Speak with knowledge ! If you ever checked my own profile your entire post goes to bin. With respect.

You send EVERYONE'S comments to bin. With scant respect.

 

[Chilidogs]

Volunteer. Get involved in a local ministry.

This is actually my next move! Im just afraid she will not agree with me politically -- because its already over if thats the case

I'm just messing. I honestly have been wanting to volunteer at the Open Door Mission (feeding homeless). Not only to meet women, but because I truly love to help people, especially people who need help. I was thinking about doing this last year but I never did -- thanks for re-giving me the idea!

 

[Chilidogs]

Meet in the eyes lol most people now are wearing mask 😅


Anyways...nowadays it seems like online meet up is quite the normal thing... Unless you wanna volunteer...well, many churches and charitable institutions these days are doing pantry to help those in need so maybe do like that kind of thing... 🤔

Absolutely -- you and @melita916 have this down. TOTALLY about to try this. If all else fails.... I guess ill have to meet an internet wife

 

[tourist]

Best place to meet a woman is the Supermarket. This is how you know she cooks.


Bye.

Supermarkets are an excellent resource for those that are romantically inclined. It's good to have you back Mel. You have been missed.

 

[tourist]

Some Irish guy messaged me. He said he is lonely and he needs a good woman.

You certainly qualify.

 

[Lanolin]

I suppose you would meet them at the hospital if they got covid or the testing clinic.

Honestly this is silly. What part of NO do people not understand.

 

[love_comes_softly]

Im not sure this will work either. It has not worked for me atleast. "Entertainment and fun" do you really think you can find a true hearted single Christian there ? I can tell you, I have searched in all kinds of places including churches but also college (when I was younger), social events, groceries, museums, parks, libraries, classical music concerts, etc even tried in a table tennis event once, and this is what I found: NOTHING.


Dancing REALLY ??? This is one of the places I avoided in my search ! I always knew it was one of the worst places to search what I wanted. Listen me, women in dancing are HUGE CHEATS. Just like bar, nurses, gym women are. They have got all the men they want. You even said there were women with boyfriends and husbands who wanted to go dancing ! And most likely they have gone secretly and danced with who knows who. Know why ? THEY WANT TO CHEAT ON THEM ! If they have not done it already. They dont believe in marriage or relationships, they just want FUN ! Avoid this landfill if you dont want a promiscuous girl who will cheat 50 times on you "just learning to dance". The kind of people you will see there is not much different from the kind of people you see in a bar or club.


LOL you have no experience at all with dance women. They dont want to enter a relationship with you. They want to obtain a particular interest from you, which can be anything from money to an one night stand. They want to ruin your life. Avoid them ! Dont let one of them deceive you !


So you say the best way to catch a woman is doing nothing. LOL, this is actually the best way to be an invisible loner without any female ever thinking in you forever. If you want a chance with a woman you have to man up, find the right time and start talking to her.


They probably want something about you, not you as a person.


Fake Christians who say they are just for contenting their parents.


So that God gives you in a tray everything you want just sit down on the chair. And trust him He will do...

Your post made me laugh. Where does all your “wisdom” come from?

If you aren’t finding anyone anywhere, it’s best to look inward and ask the Lord, “why?” It’s most likely something within ourselves.

 

[Kojikun]

I joined a Christian Alternative dating group on social media and im meeting alot of cool women. Woman are actually responding to me (perhaps my looks and style were wasted on other Christian dating groups) There is also dating groups for Christian nerds and other sub groups of Christians. But yeah dating apps are only useful if your rich or a super model. (I have never tried a payed Christian dating site so perhaps theres more of a chance there) But yeah if your a nerd or into goth stuff there are Christian dating groups for those. Or a normal Christian dating group could work. Dont limit yourself to one join a bunch of them you use social media like facebook.

 

[Kojikun]

I joined a Christian Alternative dating group on social media and im meeting alot of cool women. Woman are actually responding to me (perhaps my looks and style were wasted on other Christian dating groups) There is also dating groups for Christian nerds and other sub groups of Christians. But yeah dating apps are only useful if your rich or a super model. (I have never tried a payed Christian dating site so perhaps theres more of a chance there) But yeah if your a nerd or into goth stuff there are Christian dating groups for those. Or a normal Christian dating group could work. Dont limit yourself to one join a bunch of them you use social media like facebook.

Ugh...I should not have said anything. I got a feeling im going get slammed by an extremely judgmental "Christian" soon 😬🙄 really that five minute window to delete stuff needs to be lengthened...

 

[love_comes_softly]

Ugh...I should not have said anything. I got a feeling im going get slammed by an extremely judgmental "Christian" soon 😬🙄 really that five minute window to delete stuff needs to be lengthened...

It’s wonderful that you’ve found a place where you’re connecting with likeminded people. It makes sense that you’d see more interest in a specific group.

I don’t see anything wrong with your post apart from the strong statement of dating sites only being useful for the rich and beautiful. It’s too general to be completely true, but I think we all know that. I understand the frustration behind the comment.

 

[surfer14]

Ive actually gotten hit on in the supermarket more than anywhere..... I wonder why... I guess I look like I could throw down in the kitchen.

I see a parallel....

Woman = gazel
grocery store = watering hole
Man = crocodile

 

[Kojikun]

It’s wonderful that you’ve found a place where you’re connecting with likeminded people. It makes sense that you’d see more interest in a specific group.

I don’t see anything wrong with your post apart from the strong statement of dating sites only being useful for the rich and beautiful. It’s too general to be completely true, but I think we all know that. I understand the frustration behind the comment.

Yes free dating sites have issues. Unfortunately women are relentlessly pestered and treated like objects on most of them so when someone genuinely wants a relationship many are often wary. I can understand they deal with alot so I cant put all the blame on them as they certainly don't asked to treated like that . On social media group works a little better because some are more dedicated to a single type of person so its easier to find what your looking for and its easier to post on the group instead of private messages which for most woman are a hit miss.

 

[cinder]

Yes free dating sites have issues. Unfortunately women are relentlessly pestered and treated like objects on most of them so when someone genuinely wants a relationship many are often wary. I can understand they deal with alot so I cant put all the blame on them as they certainly don't asked to treated like that . On social media group works a little better because some are more dedicated to a single type of person so its easier to find what your looking for and its easier to post on the group instead of private messages which for most woman are a hit miss.

Just in chat rooms (because I haven't done dating sites) I know I've setup a rule that basically you have to show you know something about me (by like reading my profile or listening to what I've said in group) to get a response to your PM. A generic Hi I'd like to get to know you better will not get an answer. It's really not hard. If I mention I like reasonably clean and uplifting sci-fi and fantasy stories you can easily ask Have you read _____ series? Or I've liked such and such Do you know of any good similar books or authors? And that's a conversation starter. Just saying that the quality of PM we receive may determine our likelihood of responding and just like resumes, you want yours to stick our from the crowd.

 

[Lynx]

Just in chat rooms (because I haven't done dating sites) I know I've setup a rule that basically you have to show you know something about me (by like reading my profile or listening to what I've said in group) to get a response to your PM. A generic Hi I'd like to get to know you better will not get an answer. It's really not hard. If I mention I like reasonably clean and uplifting sci-fi and fantasy stories you can easily ask Have you read _____ series? Or I've liked such and such Do you know of any good similar books or authors? And that's a conversation starter. Just saying that the quality of PM we receive may determine our likelihood of responding and just like resumes, you want yours to stick our from the crowd.

Hi! I'd like to get to know you better.

 

[RodB651]

In the age of covid, we are at a place where if you meet someone, you've dated two or three times,... You can look at her and say,.. "I'll remove my mask if you'll remove yours..."

we really are there!

 

[EternalFire]

Im not sure this will work either. It has not worked for me atleast. "Entertainment and fun" do you really think you can find a true hearted single Christian there ? I can tell you, I have searched in all kinds of places including churches but also college (when I was younger), social events, groceries, museums, parks, libraries, classical music concerts, etc even tried in a table tennis event once, and this is what I found: NOTHING.


Dancing REALLY ??? This is one of the places I avoided in my search ! I always knew it was one of the worst places to search what I wanted. Listen me, women in dancing are HUGE CHEATS. Just like bar, nurses, gym women are. They have got all the men they want. You even said there were women with boyfriends and husbands who wanted to go dancing ! And most likely they have gone secretly and danced with who knows who. Know why ? THEY WANT TO CHEAT ON THEM ! If they have not done it already. They dont believe in marriage or relationships, they just want FUN ! Avoid this landfill if you dont want a promiscuous girl who will cheat 50 times on you "just learning to dance". The kind of people you will see there is not much different from the kind of people you see in a bar or club.


LOL you have no experience at all with dance women. They dont want to enter a relationship with you. They want to obtain a particular interest from you, which can be anything from money to an one night stand. They want to ruin your life. Avoid them ! Dont let one of them deceive you !


So you say the best way to catch a woman is doing nothing. LOL, this is actually the best way to be an invisible loner without any female ever thinking in you forever. If you want a chance with a woman you have to man up, find the right time and start talking to her.


They probably want something about you, not you as a person.


Fake Christians who say they are just for contenting their parents.


So that God gives you in a tray everything you want just sit down on the chair. And trust him He will do...

In an attempt to provide you with some solutions to your problems, I offer you this information in the form of an open rebuke, as it is better than hidden love (Proverbs 27:5-6).

I’ve scanned some of your posts, and I’m absolutely horrified by your state-of-mind and your actions. They are anything but godly.

Note Proverbs 19:14: “Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the LORD.”

Given your clear displays of folly time and time again, the LORD God Almighty would be a fool to give you one of His precious daughters as a wife. You are nowhere near ready to love a woman as Christ loves the Church.

Repent from your evil ways (Mark 1:15). Take up your cross daily, deny yourself, and follow Jesus (Luke 9:23).

May the one true God, the Father alone, bless you as you obey Jesus, the one whom He has made both Lord and Christ (John 17:1-3; Acts 2:36).