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1ofthem

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Wake up people...none of us is any better than the other. There is no respect of persons with God.

He sent the Holy Ghost into the world to convict it of sin. Jesus said if I be lifted up then I will draw all men to myself.

What is so hard about it and why keep wrestling with the scriptures over it?
 

oyster67

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Who will do this other than the regenerate?
The ones who Jesus died for. The lost ones who are dead in their sins...

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2:16 And when the scribes and Pharisees saw him eat with publicans and sinners, they said unto his disciples, How is it that he eateth and drinketh with publicans and sinners?
2:17 When Jesus heard [it], he saith unto them, They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick: I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.
 

tribesman

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Very good. Yes, I am. Because the Bible makes faith conditional upon salvation..

Everyone chooses to believe. Unless you are a robot or puppet. But that's a different thing.


Oh, right. Let's bring in the IQ thing. Are you not aware that there are many very smart scientists who believe in a theory called evolution, which has never been proven, and has been refuted by facts? What do you do with those guys?

Your argument just fell apart.


Of course I didn't. How ridiculous. Did you ask to be born again? Neither did I. So what? God offers salvation by grace (Titus 2:11) and He then does a whole lot MORE than just save us.

Again, your argument just fell apart.


That's what the Bible teaches clearly. And I am not a universalist and the Bible teaches that Christ died for everyone.

Or, if you want to twist "everyone" to only mean "the elect" how do you want to twist 1 Peter 3:18 - For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit.

Do you want to argue that ONLY "the elect" are 'unrighteous'?


Well then, you're at least half way there to the truth.

Now, absorb Eph 2:8. Since we are saved by grace THROUGH FAITH, that proves that we are regenerated the SAME WAY, which is THROUGH FAITH.

So there you have it. Faith before regeneration.


Where did you get the silly notion that I think saving faith is something "produced". The Bible doesn't teach that. So why do YOU claim that?

Faith is simply trusting. When YOU trust something (like a bridge or chair), did you have to "produce" that trust? Or how did you come to trusting in it?


Calvinists have a very bad habit of ignoring then VERY NEXT VERSE. So let's look at it:

v.45 It is written in the Prophets: ‘They will all be taught by God. ’Everyone who has heard the Father and learned from him comes to me.

iow, those who paid attention by LISTENING and LEARNING will come to Jesus. Very simple. And free will all the way.

I will assume you've been through the educational system. Did everyone in every class pay full attention, or where there dreamers and goof offs in class? So, you see, there are those who CHOOSE to pay attention and those who CHOOSE not to.

Again, free will at work.


Yes, no man is able to save himself. That is not the issue here at all. And you have completely misunderstood Jesus' answer to the Jews. They asked this in v.28 - Then they asked him, “What must we do to do the works God requires?”

Keep in mind that the Jews were very works oriented. They wrongly thought salvation was by works. So Jesus used a bit of tongue-in-cheek in His answer in v.29 - Jesus answered, “The work of God is this: to believe in the one he has sent.”

He answered them according to their own words.

And the Bible is very clear about works vs faith. They are DIFFERENT.

Rom 4:4,5 and Eph 2:8,9 prove that faith or believing is NOT A WORK.

So when you quote John 6:29 OUT OF CONTEXT, you are ignoring a lot of Scripture that refutes your argument.


Please don't take "dead" as meaning non-functional, a very common error among evangelicals.

Spiritual death means separation from God. It doesn't mean brain dead and unable to think.


Wow. All this comes from calvinism. Aren't you defending calvinism?


Your error is in thinking that somehow faith contributes to salvation. It doesn't. Where did you get that notion?


No, I understand what spiritual death means, unlike yourself.

You seem to be taking it to be physical death, or brain death. That's wrong.

Paul refutes your theory soundly in Rom 2:14,15

14 (Indeed, when Gentiles, who do not have the law, do by nature things required by the law, they are a law for themselves, even though they do not have the law.
15They show that the requirements of the law are written on their hearts, their consciences also bearing witness, and their thoughts sometimes accusing them and at other times even defending them.)

In the NT, the word Gentiles generally is used of unbelieving non Jews. And here Paul notes that even Gentiles have a conscience and can differentiate between right and wrong.

And that God WROTE the requirements of the law on their hearts.
Ok looks like a smorgasbord of scripture being smashed together and taken out of context.

1 Corinthians 12 is about the gifts of the Spirit not Salvation.
You are the one who lack understanding of context then. And already explained in that post about the "gifts of the Spirit" counter-argument. If you cared to read it. Yes, it is a gift of the Spirit that ALL believers have and that INSTANTLY manifest itself at regeneration.

Maybe in your world the unregenerate can have gifts of the Spirit. Why not?
 

tribesman

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The ones who Jesus died for. The lost ones who are dead in their sins...

Mark
2:16 And when the scribes and Pharisees saw him eat with publicans and sinners, they said unto his disciples, How is it that he eateth and drinketh with publicans and sinners?
2:17 When Jesus heard [it], he saith unto them, They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick: I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.
And where in these verses does it say that the unregenerate have an ability of making "a free will choice" to "accept" Jesus?
 

tribesman

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Wake up people...none of us is any better than the other. There is no respect of persons with God.

He sent the Holy Ghost into the world to convict it of sin. Jesus said if I be lifted up then I will draw all men to myself.

What is so hard about it and why keep wrestling with the scriptures over it?
Are you believing that literally "all men" will be saved then? Or are they only drawn to Christ so that they can use their ability of a "free will choice" which will co-work to save them?

"Not without the almighty free will of unregenerate man, else God is unfair!". Eh?

Poor God, He have to await the reply of dead sinners to ask for they say first before He can save them.
 

1ofthem

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You are the one who lack understanding of context then. And already explained in that post about the "gifts of the Spirit" counter-argument. If you cared to read it. Yes, it is a gift of the Spirit that ALL believers have and that INSTANTLY manifest itself at regeneration.

Maybe in your world the unregenerate can have gifts of the Spirit. Why not?
I suggest you reread it...

Let's start with this point:

9 To another faith by the same Spirit; to another the gifts of healing by the same Spirit;

By your conclusion you would have only some given faith...then you would have others not given faith healing and performing miracles and etc.

We can conclude that is is not talking about saving faith unless you are saying some will be saved, but there will be others who are not saved performing healing and miracles.

Now that wouldn't make any sense would it? Sounds like you are the one that would have the unregenerate having the gifts of the Spirit.
 

oyster67

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And where in these verses does it say that the unregenerate have an ability of making "a free will choice" to "accept" Jesus?
Yes, that is exactly what these verses say. This is what the Gospel is all about. Jesus died for unregenerate sinners. Who did you think he came to save???

Mark
2:16 And when the scribes and Pharisees saw him eat with publicans and sinners, they said unto his disciples, How is it that he eateth and drinketh with publicans and sinners?
2:17 When Jesus heard [it], he saith unto them, They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick: I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.
 

1ofthem

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Are you believing that literally "all men" will be saved then? Or are they only drawn to Christ so that they can use their ability of a "free will choice" which will co-work to save them?

"Not without the almighty free will of unregenerate man, else God is unfair!". Eh?

Poor God, He have to await the reply of dead sinners to ask for they say first before He can save them.
Here comes the Calvinist twisting...No one thinks all will be saved. But we do know that all will have a chance evident by the many verses that say whosoever, all, all men , the whole world...etc.

We know it is not his will that any perish but that all come to repentance. However, no one thinks God is a poor pitiful God begging for sinners to be saved and so weak that he can't make it happen. So there has to be another reason that all won't be saved. He is a God of Love, Judgement and Justice. He set a plan in motion and left us a choice to accept it or not. If we don't accept it there will be no excuse and we will die lost.

It's really not that hard to understand.
 

oyster67

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He have to await the reply of dead sinners to ask for they say first before He can save them.
Absolutely! (This is new to you?:confused:) God will not force anyone to come. He will force no man to follow, but the invitation goes out to all. (This is new to you? Really?)
 

oyster67

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It's really not that hard to understand.
Agree. I'm starting to wonder if someone is not pulling their own leg. The Word is so clear. How could anyone be so blind? I can think of one way, but I must give our friend the benefit of the doubt.
 

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Agree. I'm starting to wonder if someone is not pulling their own leg. The Word is so clear. How could anyone be so blind? I can think of one way, but I must give our friend the benefit of the doubt.
Yeah, I have no idea how Calvinism even took root like it did. But it is a problem people have been taught to disregard and/or twist scripture to try to get it to say what they want. Why they would even want scripture to uphold Calvinism in the least is beyond me.

From what I've read about Calvin, he seemed to be a pretty cold hearted bitter man. Nothing like Jesus.
 
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Yes Cornelius was saved by new birth because he worked righteousness and feared God Acts 10:34-35
You need to read the next chapter, v.14. It is Peter's explanation of why he visited Cornelius' house.

" He will bring you a message through which you and all your household will be saved.’" Future tense there.

It is simply impossible that Cornelius was saved BEFORE Peter's preaching.

34 Then Peter opened his mouth, and said, Of a truth I perceive that God is no respecter of persons:

35 But in every nation he that feareth him, and worketh righteousness, is accepted with him.

You telling me a person accepted with God is a lost person ? If so, you dont know the first thing about Salvation.
Acts 11:14 refutes your opinion.

v.35 doesn't say Cornelius was saved. It simply recognizes that Cornelius believed that God existed and sought Him (Heb 11:6 - And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.)
 
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You missing my point !
I'm not concerned with your point. I am concerned that you keep ignoring my point.

It seems you don't actually understand the principle of fellowship. Or you would have provided an answer to my question.
 
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I do think people forget something

We can not earn salvation, But we can earn condemnation.
No. Man is born condemned. It isn't earned. It is inherited. Romans 5:12-19

We are saved by grace, period. But we can reject grace.
At the moment one believes in Christ for salvation, Jesus gives them eternal life. John 3:15,16, 5:24.

And then Jesus said, in John 10:28, "I give them (believers) eternal life, and they shall never perish."

He who believes is not condemned. But he who does not believe is condemned ALREADY.

It is rejection in unbelief that condemns a person.
Again, no, everyone is born condemned. John 3:18, 2 Thessalonica 2:12.

It is those who "have not believed" that are condemned. That means they never believed.

Once belief, never to perish.
 
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You still see a built-in "ability" in natural man to be able to believe, only if he wants to?
Everyone has the ability to believe what God says. Or don't you believe Rom 2:14,15?

Sin is not so much deadly then, is it?
On the contrary, sin condemned all of humanity. Thanks Adam.

The very day Adam ate the fruit, he died spiritually, and ALL children born after that are born with sin, inherited from Adam.

Romans 5:12-19
 
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The ones who Jesus died for. The lost ones who are dead in their sins...

Mark
2:16 And when the scribes and Pharisees saw him eat with publicans and sinners, they said unto his disciples, How is it that he eateth and drinketh with publicans and sinners?
2:17 When Jesus heard [it], he saith unto them, They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick: I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.
Amen.

I also love 1 Peter 3:18 - For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit.

I guess calvinists have to argue that they alone among the human race are "the UN-righteous".

The Bible never says that Christ died for the righteous. And calvinists believe that Christ didn't die for everyone.

I guess that makes them the only unrighteous ones.