I did not call grace irresistible, not did I define it as an extra work of grace, nor add any other modifier to it. Grace is grace. God is drawing all men (and women) to Himself, and has promised in His revealed written Word to reveal Himself to those who seek Him sincerely and diligently. I have affirmed already many times that the Holy Spirit of God works in both sinner and saved, and have never identified it as a selective force, saying also many times that God is drawing all to Himself, so what or why you are arguing these points with me I do not know, beyond the fact that you seem to be saying that an unregenerate person can choose to believe in their state of being hostile to God and at enmity with Him, whereas I am saying God makes it possible for us to believe, but does not make that choice for us.