OSAS teaches that we may by dead faith obtain that which can only be obtained by living faith, and Calvinism says, well, so many crazy things: like we are so totally depraved that we can't even look in God's direction except that He first cleans us up a little...while the most depraved being in history is fully able to engage the Lord, even make wagers like in the book of Job.
no; that's what people who hate these things, say that those things say. i think that's what EG has been trying to tell you -- that you're really misrepresenting what he believes through these assumptions.
start from God is holy, almighty and just.
take what you confessed, "we can do nothing of our our own selves"
where does that lead?
you can't save yourself. you have nothing not given to you; you add nothing to God and nothing you do or say can measure up to Him.
you can't keep yourself saved. you can't even exist without Him. you can't think, breathe, move or talk unless He grants these things to you. you don't have will unless He allows you to have it. you are nothing, you don't even have being, except for His mercy.
so how are you going to do any of these things having to do with life, faith, righteousness and godliness, without Him being the power and the beginning and the end of all those things?
dude if salvation depended on us there would be no such thing as salvation. and if it depends on God then there is no way He is ever going to lose even one of His own sheep. he's going to carry it back on His shoulder, and if He has to resurrect it from dust to do so, He will. nothing is impossible with Him.
this is the way He designed it to be. He designed it so that men can't look at another man and damn them in truth, and so that men can't reach heaven at all - but that He Himself has to be the one who reaches down and lifts us up. the absolute sovereign origin of it and the irrevocable security of it is kind of why it's called "salvation"