I do not know who you are or how you live.
I've just been sharing what the scriptures say.
You seem terribly convicted by them.
Don't get defensive. Take it to Jesus.
Fall on his mercy.
"‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’
14“I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God." - Luke 18:13-14
That's how I got saved.
I couldn't make the grade, so I asked for God's mercy and he forgave me and gave me a new life and set me free from my bondage to sin.
Are you perfect in all your ways?
You started out as the man who asked for mercy. But now you have become the other man. The self righteous man who was thanking God that he was not like the other man who he deemed was a sinner/unsaved.
You started out right. And now that God has purified you and made you clean, through no effort of your own, you want to take His glory by tooting your own horn.
Humble thyself! Hypocrite. Liar. Humble thyself.
If you have made progress in overcoming some of your sinful ways. Then teach others how to do the same. But not to gain salvation, but rather to do the things that are pleasing in God sight.
God did not set you free from your sinful ways just so that you can show off on those struggling or who perhaps have not yet come to an accurate understanding.
God did not change you so that you can now spread lies, that you are saved by doing good works.
So if you don't know how to preach the gospel, then be quiet.
Tell me, when did God appoint you to go about, and say who is saved and who isn't?
Can you see into anyone's heart? Humble thyself and let God do His job. He does not require your assistance.