@WithinReason
There's a time and place for every thing. Drinking is suitable in the context of celebration, or Jesus wouldn't have made water into wine. Jesus did not make grape juice at that wedding, which is very clear from the context, He made wine. And since Jesus made wine, that would have made God quote a hypocrite, if it was like you say. So it isn't like that. The guests were also already drunk when Jesus gave them wine. Which drives to the logical conclusion that if God offered them wine, it isn't necessarily sin even to be drunk (!) as long as one is not committing debauchery. Surprising, but self evident!
Genesis 49:12 His eyes
shall be red with wine, and his teeth white with milk.
If wine was sin, how could this Messianic prophecy even happen? Does the Word describe the Messiah using vices?
My relationship with alcohol:
I will have apple cider every now and then (once a year or less often, with my best friend for fellowship, one drink each).
I had a glass of wine last time years ago for my wedding because it was a gift and a very special batch.
I want to make the point that people aren't disagreeing with you because they love drinking, or are addicted.
So, the Bible doesn't prohibit alcohol nor it is always sin to drink, and it is
adding to the Word to insist on it, which is a grave offense. Jesus had wine, apostles had wine, in appropriate situations and none of them were drinking to the point of disgracing themselves. You might have personal reasons to feel strongly about alcohol, it's obvious that you feel very strongly about it. But people look at what Christ and the apostles did, so they are not necessarily going to agree with you, or choose to forego wine completely. Maybe alcohol is your personal conviction, obviously through Romans 14 you are not supposed to have a drop ever because it is sin
to you... Which is completely legit. If you have witnessed alcoholism first hand in your surroundings, harming you or people you love, that is something we can all understand.