I am 45 years old and I never have had a girlfriend.

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Lynx

Lynx

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Has anybody noticed the person who started this thread has only made one post, ever? Not just one post in this thread, one post on the whole forum. And this thread is on the third page now.
 
cinder

cinder

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Lynx said:
Has anybody noticed the person who started this thread has only made one post, ever? Not just one post in this thread, one post on the whole forum. And this thread is on the third page now.
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Don't look now, but you just made it 4 pages.
 
Lynx

Lynx

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And still no word from the OP. Wonder what he's doing.

"I always feel like
Somebody's watching me"

Maybe he's just watching us...
 
Moses_Young

Moses_Young

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Lynx said:
And still no word from the OP. Wonder what he's doing.

"I always feel like
Somebody's watching me"

Maybe he's just watching us...
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He's probably taking refuge under his bridge.
 
Manna2

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Butterflyyy said:
Why can't someone just want Him for being him?
Why does he have to try and improve himself? God loves him.
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This Andy Stanley series has some great practical dating advice that many people (including Christians) overlook. I learned and was reminded of a lot. One of the questions Andy asked was "Are you the person you want to marry?" It is not our place to say what Robin's character is or the state of his spiritual life, but he should ask himself that question. Would he want to marry a person like himself?

 
ArtsieSteph

ArtsieSteph

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Pardon my impertinence, but if I were you I’d pray for my future spouse as well as for myself to be ready for said spouse. God may give you a girlfriend but that relationship may or may not last. Maybe He’s wanting you to pray something that’s better for you. 😁
 
Butterflyyy

Butterflyyy

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Moses_Young said:
By realising you deserve a boyfriend more than anyone else, you are halfway there. Now you only need to convince an eligible boyfriend of this, and you will be set.

I recommend email chain letters. Folks love those. Put a convincing argument stating the above in an email chain letter, and put a realistic sounding punishment for non-forwarding at the end, to ensure the email goes viral. I usually find the text "If you do not forward this email chain letter on to at least 10 eligible [insert your own criteria or phrase here], your email address will be provided to a database for Nigerian scammers, and henceforth be next to unusable with all the spam you will receive".

Then just relax, sit back, and wait for Mr Right to respond.
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The OP is a man😬
 
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