If you read The Acts to the Apostles 17:19 - 14, you will see an example of how when the word of God is preached the Holy Spirit convicts to bring them to Yeshua. John 16:8, Yeshua said, when he (the Holy Spirit) is com, he will reprove the world of sin, the following verse says, of sin, because they believe not on me, again this insinuates that one has a choice to believe. The Scriptures tell us, IF we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. "IF" insinuates that the person decides if they want their sins forgiven, but it is the preaching of the Gospel of Salvation that brings them to the cross and it is the Spirit of God that convicts of sins.
From reading your post it appears that you are set in a distorted view that you think is true, you are not willing to look at other passages of the Scriptures, but will only quote verses that you think supports your view, which is a distorted view. Let me also mention, the Scriptures substantiates itself, and I am showing you through the Scriptures with passages about the truth of God's word what God made clear when he first spoke, which allows me to throw fair questions which you avoid answering. I am wasting my time with you because you are here just to dispute a topic that you are set on, you have no interest in what the Scripture truly says and you know that you will not accept what others say, you are here to try to impress that all. I am wasting my time with you so count this my last response to you on this topic.
When a person put all his emphasis on a subject, without responding accordingly it tells me a lot of that person. Nice talking, but I am wasting my time responding to someone who really do not want to weigh Scripture fairly. Respectfully.