When you get older most people that are younger than you seem less mature, thats just the way it is.
If you are balanced that means you have solid foundation in Christ. He anchors you. Many people dont have this anchor for their soul and can be adrift or doubleminded. We are to be singleminded in christ. To some that can seem narrowminded.
Because of the culture of youth in much of society you get situations where being irresponsible and youthful is prized over responsibilty and maturity that comes with wisdom and experience. So thats when you get baby boomers still acting like toddlers, many people with addiction problems actually have to learn, once they get off the drugs, how to be an adult from the beginning because if you hooked on drugs it stunts your growth. Your brain cells havent been growing because theyve been killed off. But once you are clean, you can still continue to grow and learn.
Most people nowadays cant be caegorised evenly because thers so many toxic substances and influences people are being exposed to, which hamper a lot of growth. And like plants, if certain plants dont get enough light, they just stop growing, or are weak.