I used to be part of the Catholic Church but no one could answer any questions I had that seemed so obviously against Scripture.
I always felt uncomfortable with the "Hail Mary full of Grace" prayer as I didn't understand how that could be justified when compared to Scripture. The Churches are full of gold, finely robed men, statues and looked incredibly rich to me when the simple churches I found later always seemed to me more filled with the Holy Spirit and not some distraction of traditions and display. Not men "clothed in purple and fine linen". In fact, I found small bible study groups more informative and uplifting as surely studying Scripture is the key to all faith in the first place.
Romans 10:17 17 “So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”
I always got some answer from the Priest that didn't ring true, like "early Christians worshiped Mary" but after digging deeper I found there is no evidence of veneration of saints or Mary in the Bible. Not only that, there is every indication that God wants us to only revere Jesus. They always went a funny colour when you ask these questions, almost like a JW when you mention Jesus....
Like it says in Titus 2:5, there is one God and one mediator between God and man–the man Jesus Christ.
We should never worship or venerate any human being. It is against the Bible. Even if a Catholic person can show you that Catholics do unchristian things like venerate saints or Mary it does not make it a biblical or a Christian thing to so. We worship God according to the Scripture, not according to the tradition of man, especially when that tradition so clearly violates the Scripture (Mathew 15:9). There is no possible biblical warrant for worshipping Mary or for revering her. This Catholic teaching is not supported by the Bible. Neither is it supported by a third century papyrus which may or may not be a reference to Mary, of which many use or quote to try and justify this.
I also noticed that many Catholics have "Icons" and worship them. The Commandments were changed to blot out certain words to justify this. But the KJV says
Leviticus 26:1
Ye shall make you no idols nor graven image, neither rear you up a standing image, neither shall ye set up [any] image of stone in your land, to bow down unto it: for I [am] the LORD your God.
Exodus 20:5
Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the LORD thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me.
Having said that, I have known many good and true hearted Catholics who talk about Jesus all the time - especially a certain Priest who helped me learn much about Jesus in my youth. I do think many get caught up in their traditions, depending on their upbringing, belief in what their peers, parents and elders teach them and simply haven't questioned Scripture in comparing what God actually says, rather than "early writings" or what "Fatima told people". These answers never satisfied me, so I walked away. I think it is a heartfelt thing and takes courage not to run with the crowd and take the narrow gate. Many do not even read Scripture in these Churches, let alone study the word and question everything. Clearly, many follow the masses but this leads to the wrong place.
Matt 7:14
13 Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: 14 Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it. 15 Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.
It makes me wonder also about those who are "not saved" but it is Gods will that all are saved. If as someone said recently to me, "only around 1% are really born again Christians" then wouldn't that mean Satan had won? I don't believe that as I think the Judgement is for a reason. For God to judge the hearts and minds of everyone rightly. Because only God knows peoples hearts. Everyone gets the chance to give account, like any court on earth.
The painting of the strait (narrow) versus wide gate etching by Jan Luyken (1649-1712) was a true vision of how people follow the wrong path.
I do think though, God being a merciful God, judges all hearts rightly, no matter who they are or what they have been led to believe.
The day of Judgement is for a reason, otherwise why bother to judge anyone? Everyone gets a chance to give an account of why they do what they do and speak what they speak. As God is a merciful and righteous judge, will he not judge rightly? I imagine if your brother had a good heart and just followed "traditions of men" it does not mean he will go to a bad place necessarily but will be allowed the day of judgement to hear his case. Everyone has done things and has to account for even everyone word we speak (gulp)
If it was "done and dusted" that people are beyond hope, why have a judgement then? I guess this is similar to a court hearing with a judge hearing the evidence. But knowing that the Judge is good and true, merciful and understanding.
Matt 12:36
But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
Psalm 116:5
Because he hath inclined his ear unto me, therefore will I call upon him as long as I live. The sorrows of death compassed me, and the pains of hell gat hold upon me: I found trouble and sorrow. Then called I upon the name of the LORD; O LORD, I beseech thee, deliver my soul. Gracious is the LORD, and righteous; yea, our God is merciful. The LORD preserveth the simple: I was brought low, and he helped me. Return unto thy rest, O my soul; for the LORD hath dealt bountifully with thee. For thou hast delivered my soul from death, mine eyes from tears, and my feet from falling.