But everything you just used to measure here is a self centered, and an arbitrary personal perspective. In a world without God there is no reason to love, or decide what's good and evil, other than "I feel this way". If that's true of love it has to be just as true of hate, and anger, and jealousy, and honesty. These things are only relevant to you when we "feel it", but each one of us may "feel" something different. It's chaos when no one can define a standard to which all others must be grounded in. Now all of us live as if there is a standard, whether we believe in God or not, however those that deny Gods existence, or profess the ever prevalent and baseless, floating, evasive, mushy neutral stance "I haven't seen the evidence that convinces me, but I won't take any solid stance or lay a foundation to stand on, an "anything can happen so I can always have an out", position.
Again I have to point out that in and of the flesh you can not find God, you can not be born again. This is why Jesus is such a scandal, because He tells us He is "THE" way not "a" way. The things of the Spirit are foolishness to those who are perishing. The problems is way beyond a debate about "contradiction's" in the bible, or how old the earth is. I am NOT saying we abandon our brains and just blindly believe, but the truth is the spiritual truth can not be found by studying the creation, even though I'd say creation SCREAMS His name. Being "Born Again", is the point that Jesus sacrifice is applied to you, His righteousness is applied to you and your sins washed clean because He took the punishment, leaves a JUST God, full of mercy, by His grace because He loves you. BAM now your spirit is resurrected and is reconciled to the Fathers, recreating you as you were intended to be, making you all new, your eyes see things different, priorities completely rearranged. A whole new path in power, and it's the Spirit that testifies of the Truth, and I just so happen to know who that is.
The whole way you're thinking here is part of the trap, and man I can start going. Does this make sense to you up to this point. I just wanted to stop myself before I cover way more than can be answered in a sensible post.