Baptism, Born again, how are they connected?
Hi again Azawah, I assume that you are referring to "water" baptism, yes? (also, it probably wouldn't hurt to define what "born again" means, since there are several definitions/understandings of it floating around these boards).
That said, where baptism and being born again ~connect~ depends upon the church/denomination and what they believe concerning water baptism. For instance, the RCC, EOC, OOC, Lutherans, as well a couple of the Protestant churches, believe that the waters of baptism are salvific (even for infants in the case of the traditional churches), such that God causes you to be "born again" or "regenerated" or "made alive" or "quickened" to spiritual life when you are baptized in water.
I'll stop here to make sure that we are on the same page concerning the two principle terms.
~Deut