Living in fear

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Gerry53

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i am well ,thanks for asking i have been busy packing have to move in 10 days,you are not an enigma you are just growing your faith,
 
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Gerry53

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yeah you are probally right because some days we dont relaly understand this world and how men can do what they do so i guess we are enigmas once and awhile
 
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HistoryPrincess

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Gerry53 said:
yeah you are probally right because some days we dont relaly understand this world and how men can do what they do so i guess we are enigmas once and awhile
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I meant I don't always know how to figure myself out.
 
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Gerry53

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thats just part of growing up i am going to be 54 next month and i still havent figured out why i am here , but i am starting to get a clearer picture so take your time and continue asking question and you will be fine.
 
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Gerry53 said:
thats just part of growing up i am going to be 54 next month and i still havent figured out why i am here , but i am starting to get a clearer picture so take your time and continue asking question and you will be fine.
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Peer pressure is as unavoidable for my generation as death and taxes.
 
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Gerry53

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yeah i hear you i have 2 daughters your age and life seems more complicated then when i was 25 but it just seems that way,because when we were young we just didint worry about what others thought of us.we just went about our business and if you stuck your nose in my buisness i would break it, but tosay you cant do that.
 
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Gerry53 said:
yeah i hear you i have 2 daughters your age and life seems more complicated then when i was 25 but it just seems that way,because when we were young we just didint worry about what others thought of us.we just went about our business and if you stuck your nose in my buisness i would break it, but tosay you cant do that.
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To be honest I never really cared what everyone thought of me either, since middle school.
 
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Gerry53

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well thats good because that my oldest daughters problem and it makes her unhappy but she learning.so the question i have for you is why are you sad and say i cant be happy four more than 2 days what are you searching for
 
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Gerry53 said:
well thats good because that my oldest daughters problem and it makes her unhappy but she learning.so the question i have for you is why are you sad and say i cant be happy four more than 2 days what are you searching for
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I honestly don't know. I have a melancholy personality and being tired a lot makes it harder to fight off bad thoughts and feelings.
 
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Gerry53

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i am sorry i dont understand what melancholy personality means
 
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i am sorry i dont understand what melancholy personality means
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It's a personality type. There are three others but I can't remember what they are. Melancholy basically means the most prone to depression.
 
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Gerry53

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god once explained to me that depression is caused by lack of hope so you will have to find hope.some how so what do you hope for princess,a husband a carrer anew cat what is it you want
 
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Gerry53 said:
god once explained to me that depression is caused by lack of hope so you will have to find hope.some how so what do you hope for princess,a husband a carrer anew cat what is it you want
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Depression can also be caused by chemical imbalances.

I would like to eventually be married, but not as much as I used to. I'd like to be published. I'd like to have a job I like doing and that pays well. I'd like to have friends I actually have things in common with. Other than that, I'm mostly content.
 
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Gerry53

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yeah will not argue with the cheimcal imbalinces thing l am not qaulified for that,but you no what you want so go get it refuse to be denied and once you start seeing thing come to life dont let doubt enter you just keep fighting an you will find hope,and then perserverance will soon follow and you will find what you need ,because to get unshakeable faith you have to find hope and perserverancs first,i am tired i am no writing very well
 
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Gerry53 said:
yeah will not argue with the cheimcal imbalinces thing l am not qaulified for that,but you no what you want so go get it refuse to be denied and once you start seeing thing come to life dont let doubt enter you just keep fighting an you will find hope,and then perserverance will soon follow and you will find what you need ,because to get unshakeable faith you have to find hope and perserverancs first,i am tired i am no writing very well
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I'm tired too. But thank you. If only it were that easy.
 
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Gerry53

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well one day you will see it actually is that easy but i will be for another day i cant start a conversation with you it says but anytime you want to talk i am all ears you are actually a lot of fun to talk to you i dont understand why you dont have many friends good night princess
 
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