why did Mary tell the servants at Cana to do whatever He told them?
"It is possible, but not entirely clear whether Mary shares her family's disillusionment with Jesus. Consider, for example, Mark 3:21:
"When His family heard it, they went out to physical restrain Him, for they were saying, "He is out of His mind."
In the same context, Mary joins Jesus' brothers in interrupting HIs teaching session (Mark 3:31). This reference may well include Mary in the family's rejection of the validity of Jesus' teaching and ministry. In this context, Jesus seems to put down Mary's maternal role: "Who are my (true)
mother and brothers?, etc." Indeed, Jesus shockingly objects to a spectator's attempt to honor His mother as "blessed (Luke 11:27-28). It is in this light that Jesus' negative evaluation of His family's reaction to Him must be taken seriously:
"Jesus said: A prophet is not without honor, except in His home town, and
among His own kin, and in His own house (Mark 6:5).
"Not even His own brothers believed in Him (John 7:5)."
Many posters here inadvertently create a cartoon image of Jesus as an omnipotent and omniscient God man striding around Galillee.
To see just how false that image is, ask your self these questions:
(1) Why do the people who know Jesus best--His family get disillusioned with His public ministry and teaching? Answer: They apparently do not experience Him as spiritually or mentally remarkable during His first 30 or so earlier years...
(2) Why does Jesus need to receive the Holy Spirit at His baptism before He is able to perform miracles?
(3) Why couldn't Jesus heal or preserve alive His (step-)father, Joseph, who apparently dies before Jesus has begun His public ministry?
(4) What does the pre-existent Christ "empty Himself" of to incarnate? Answer: His divine prerogatives--omniscience, omnipotence, etc.
(5) Why does Jesus need to listen the Temple rabbis and ask them questions (Luke 2:46)?
(6) How can Jesus "grow in wisdom... and favor with God" unless He was previously less wise and less in divine favor (Luke 2:52)?"
(7) How can Jesus be tested in every way just as we are" unless He shared all our human limitations (Hebrews 4:15)?
How can Jesus "learn obedience" unless He was previously disobedient or, at least, nonobedient (Hebrews 5:7)?