I don't feel comfortable talking to anybody I know so I came here for advice. There's another girl that I talked to some and I couldn't stop thinking about her. I think about how she acts, talks, and everything. I have been thinking about her non-stop for a long time. I'm not really sure how to handle this.
I think I am attracted to females a bit
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Very well, then I consider you to be a Christian. I will say this much, and then let some of the women here who are Christians address your situation. As a believer in Christ you know homosexuality is an abomination. A great sin. So, any attraction you have towards another women in that manner is not from God. And it is wrong. No matter how good you think it feels or appears, it is not from God.
Pleasure meeting you. I am sure others will have more to say concerning your situation.
Quantrill
Pleasure meeting you. I am sure others will have more to say concerning your situation.
Quantrill
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How old are you? Some people make more of an impression than others. There is so much biology and psychology that drives our urges. Thinking about someone doesn’t mean sexual attraction. The problem is, today the media brainwashes us into believing that we should act on every urge and to sexually explore. Since society not only removes the guilt, but encourages sin, we are truly in dire times.
The mind will focus on one thing at a time. It will also gravitate towards excitement and entertainment. If you really don’t want to think about this person then pick something else exciting to focus on. If you are concerned about being attracted to this individual then don’t masterbate while thinking about them. The chemicals released will pretty much cause a sexual addiction to those thoughts. Maybe not the advice you want, but good advice regardless.
The mind will focus on one thing at a time. It will also gravitate towards excitement and entertainment. If you really don’t want to think about this person then pick something else exciting to focus on. If you are concerned about being attracted to this individual then don’t masterbate while thinking about them. The chemicals released will pretty much cause a sexual addiction to those thoughts. Maybe not the advice you want, but good advice regardless.
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I've had this with a few different women since I was maybe 13. I had a doctor I was obsessed with. I had a girl I knew later in my teen years who I thought about all the time and thought she was really pretty. The newest girl I've been thinking about has been the most I've thought about anyone before.
Hi Tamina, and welcome!
I'm married but I can tell you between my flesh, and the enemy, I can sometimes find myself thinking too much about other women.
It's just our fleshy sin nature doing what comes natural to it. It's not the same temptation for everyone.
It sounds like you recognize that same sex relationships are wrong. That's a good sign the Holy Spirit is working in you.
The only way I have found success in defeating my flesh, and not listening to the devil, is by walking in the Spirit. I need to take captive every sinful thought and literally pray to Jesus to remove it.
Your flesh and the enemy never gives up, so this is NOT a one and done.
Be blessed sister!
I'm married but I can tell you between my flesh, and the enemy, I can sometimes find myself thinking too much about other women.
It's just our fleshy sin nature doing what comes natural to it. It's not the same temptation for everyone.
It sounds like you recognize that same sex relationships are wrong. That's a good sign the Holy Spirit is working in you.
The only way I have found success in defeating my flesh, and not listening to the devil, is by walking in the Spirit. I need to take captive every sinful thought and literally pray to Jesus to remove it.
Your flesh and the enemy never gives up, so this is NOT a one and done.
Be blessed sister!
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