My friend, I pray you do you take umbrage of me interjecting into this conversation. I would like to show you what my other friend is saying.
1-6 It wasn’t so long ago that you were mired in that old stagnant life of sin. You let the world, which doesn’t know the first thing about living, tell you how to live. You filled your lungs with polluted unbelief, and then exhaled disobedience. We all did it, all of us doing what we felt like doing, when we felt like doing it, all of us in the same boat. It’s a wonder God didn’t lose his temper and do away with the whole lot of us. Instead, immense in mercy and with an incredible love, he embraced us. He took our sin-dead lives and made us alive in Christ. He did all this on his own, with no help from us! Then he picked us up and set us down in highest heaven in company with Jesus, our Messiah.(Ephesians 2:1-6)
It says He took our sin-dead lives and made us alive in Christ. In the Greek, the word is νεκρός(nekros) which means "dead, without life." Our spirit was dead spiritually, like a corpse is physically. God must first bring us to life(quicken) before we can exercise faith and repentance. The lost person is alive physically, but dead spiritually. The lost person's flesh opposes God, hates, is hostile towards Him, is at enmity(has an ill- will towards God) with Him. Unless God first bring the spirit of a lost person to life, they will never trust in Him.