As I already stated, theres are several revelations within that one passage some pertaining to the time of Christ's ministry, others going forward until the second coming. The Bible is not a textbook of systematic theology, and sometimes past, present, and future are all within one passage. There are also double applications of some prophecies.
What you have written here is kind of how I see it as well. It's a little tedious for me to explain in just the few short minutes I have, at present, but I will try briefly.
Parts of Matthew 10 can be compared/correlate with the parts of the Olivet Discourse that is speaking of the events surrounding
70ad (that is, in
Lk21:12-24a [24b follows from there to be speaking of "to the end of the [future] trib, at the time of His Second Coming
to the earth, per Rev11:2]), and other parts of it can be compared/correlate with the [far] FUTURE aspects of the Olivet Discourse (i.e.
the future trib/7-yrs/70th-Wk & His Second Coming to the earth: Matt24-25) :
--Luke 21:12-24a = the events surrounding 70ad
--Luke 21:8-11 (and Matt24:4-8/Mk13:5-8 "the beginning of birth PANGS [PLURAL]" and 1Th5:2-3 the INITIAL birth PANG [SINGULAR]
=Matt24:4/Mk13:5's "G1500 -
tis - 'a certain one'" (equaling SEAL #1 / "the man of sin be revealed" / the "
whose coming/advent/arrival/presence/parousia" 2Th2:9a [man of sin] / Daniel 9:27[26 - "that SHALL COME" / "...for ONE WEEK [7-yrs]"]--this is yet future, at the START of the [yet future] 7 years/70th Wk (the Rev1:1 "things which must come to pass [4:1] IN QUICKNESS [NOUN]"... not over the course of some near-2000 years), and which end at the time of His Second Coming to the earth (Rev19)
--Matt22:7-8 providing the SAME SEQUENCE (as it pertains to those WHOM the promised and prophesied
earthly Millennial Kingdom was promised [Acts 1:6]); with v.7 speaking of the events surrounding 70ad, and then v.8's "THEN SAITH HE to His servants" (the LATER 95ad "The Revelation" writing; see Rev7:3, for example, and understood along with Rev1:1's "IN QUICKNESS [NOUN]"... shows that the Matt22:9-14 part is speaking of the far future [trib years] and the inviting [done BY the believing remnant of Israel (see also Matt25:40, who are NOT being the SUBJECTS of that judgment) TO the GENTILES, FOR the
earthly MK [entrance]) [i.e. no one PRESENTLY is "inviting" TO the wedding FEAST/SUPPER (the
earthly MK, commencing upon His "RETURN"
to the earth)--that happens DURING the trib [Matt24:14[26:13], AFTER "the Church which is His body" has been Raptured out]
… too tired to finish out these thoughts for now. Hope it's somewhat coherent.