If I wasnt shure we were compatible [speaki8ng as an old man I guess] that things could be worked out [no children pldease] then I'd cut the rope! My personal sexuality depends upon the responce of my lover. If she's not happy with it I might have spent better time with a Sears catalouge underweare section in the bathroom than trying to satisfy an insatiable sex drive or the opposite. No! after being divorced 2 x and not expecting a virgin for me any time of my life I wouldn't expet a lady of my age to play 'miss Holy Virgin and if I pretnd to, it's a con. Maybe some are not liberal enough to understand, but middle aged divorcad people mostly do.
Were not virgins! We're not teenagrs! weve had our tits in the ringar, nuts in a vice. This isn't the 1st century AD any more and tilol death do us part only meant 15 or 20 years. After wich a woman could marry her kinsman redeemer or single next of kin, on her husbands side continue the family name and fortune. Read the book of Ruth!