When you like someone (internet or real life), how do you let them know that you like them?

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It was good! Lol..why post it if you didnt want anyone to see? Curious..
I only wanted to post the text link to it, but the whole video with my face on it showed up in the post instead and there was no way to just post the link no matter what I tried. :oops: Bless you for liking it. <3 That means a lot to me :)
 
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Miri

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I started off by sending her PM's with little subtle hints that I was interested. Soon, I would color certain portions of the letter with a color that would express the emotion about how I felt along with a color chart to explain what certain colors represented. After awhile, I would sing her certain love songs in the letters. I would write a passage of a song and then write what the words meant to me regarding her. She loved how the songs and the writing were intertwined.

Red = Romantic
Pink = Intimate
Blue = Playful
Black = Serious
Turquoise = Whisper

I believe that the writings in Turquoise did the trick. These words were spoken softly during the quiet of the night when we were alone with our thoughts.

I’ve seen that film, wasn’t it called Roxanne. Lol

 

tourist

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I never heard of the film but obviously the guy was a bit smitten and was romantically inclined. :)
 
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I never heard of the film but obviously the guy was a bit smitten and was romantically inclined. :)
Aww its one of steve martin's best in my opinion. A very cute romantic comedy. He has a guy friend who doesn't know how to win over a woman so he (steve martin) writes him poems and he recites it to her but she thinks the friend wrote them. It stars Daryl Hannah.
 

Jewel5712

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Aww its one of steve martin's best in my opinion. A very cute romantic comedy. He has a guy friend who doesn't know how to win over a woman so he (steve martin) writes him poems and he recites it to her but she thinks the friend wrote them. It stars Daryl Hannah.
I liked father of the bride 1 n 2 and planes trains n automobiles ;)
 

melita916

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I tried to flirt with my husband before dating. But Melita didn’t have dem skillzzzz lol. I complimented him and said a few times he’s a blessing to me. I remember sending him a bible reference to the verse that says “I thank God every time I remember you.” That was probably my boldest move lol.
 

Demi777

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When you like someone (internet or real life), how do you let them know that you like them?

I just thought this might be an interesting thread.
Tell em...depending on how much ill invite them to a cup of coffee or somethinh like that
 

Lynx

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I’ve seen that film, wasn’t it called Roxanne. Lol

The movie Roxanne is actually a modern remake of an old play called Cyrano de Bergerac... And a very good modern remake it was.
 

cinder

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For us overly analytical types it looks more like this:

1) Find someone intriguing, spend several months trying to figure out why
2) Gather data on said someone, covertly watch said someone and try to decide if this someone is someone you can tolerate in your close inner circle
3) If they pass the initial vetting, try to actually say something to this someone, usually ends up as random but sincere compliments or saying hi and staring at your feet for 5 second until you feel awkward and say goodbye
4) if you haven't scared that special someone off by knowing way more about them than a casual acquaintance should or revealing the fact that you've already run through every possible relational scenario in your head, you might just become friends
5) ? (TBD if I ever get past the friendship of step 4)
 

Lighthearted

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I tried to flirt with my husband before dating. But Melita didn’t have dem skillzzzz lol. I complimented him and said a few times he’s a blessing to me. I remember sending him a bible reference to the verse that says “I thank God every time I remember you.” That was probably my boldest move lol.
awww! that's very romantic!
 

Lighthearted

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I think this is a good question to ask Tommy who is open to talking about pretty much anything and he's a great flirt even though he doesn't have to try....it's just his nature...might have a lot do with his job training...
 

Tommy379

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I think this is a good question to ask Tommy who is open to talking about pretty much anything and he's a great flirt even though he doesn't have to try....it's just his nature...might have a lot do with his job training...
Despite what the Google definition says. I do have some fondness and interest in someone I flirt with.

Now some people may think I'm flirting, when I'm not.
 
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toinena

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The few times I have told someone, it has been disastrous.

Next time I will wait for the man to say something. If he doesn't, then I have to accept he probably doesn't have anything to say.

The only relation I have been in... I don't think we needed to say anything. It was obvious. And so intense my brains melted and my common sense ignored the warning lamps and alarms. Sadly.
 

Lighthearted

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Despite what the Google definition says. I do have some fondness and interest in someone I flirt with.

Now some people may think I'm flirting, when I'm not.
is that a friendly fondness and interest or a "I really wanna get to know this person because she's kinda blowing my mind already"?
 

Tommy379

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is that a friendly fondness and interest or a "I really wanna get to know this person because she's kinda blowing my mind already"?
Interest as in, let's see where this rabbit hole goes. I don't mind taking a trip.