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Lynx

Lynx

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Jewel5712 said:
Question..do men tend to get intimidated by you?
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What would they get intimidated about? Because she can take care of herself in a lot of situations? That's encouraging, that a person (man or woman) actually learns about the world enough to do something constructive in a lot of different settings.

Yeah I guess that would intimidate some guys who are accustomed to women who play the "helpless female" card a lot.
 
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theanointedsinner

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Lynx said:
What would they get intimidated about? Because she can take care of herself in a lot of situations? That's encouraging, that a person (man or woman) actually learns about the world enough to do something constructive in a lot of different settings.

Yeah I guess that would intimidate some guys who are accustomed to women who play the "helpless female" card a lot.
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I want she-hulk, if that is possible
 
Faith-n-Christ

Faith-n-Christ

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Tommy379 said:
You're a woman, and can do all that?
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😀 yes. See I was raised old school Texas. Us women had to carry our own. I was hunting, fishing, gardening and riding horses for as far as I can remember. I was raised to be an independent take care of it your self woman. I desire a mate, but not for what he can do for me. Because I desire to share my life with him.
 
Jewel5712

Jewel5712

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Lynx said:
What would they get intimidated about? Because she can take care of herself in a lot of situations? That's encouraging, that a person (man or woman) actually learns about the world enough to do something constructive in a lot of different settings.

Yeah I guess that would intimidate some guys who are accustomed to women who play the "helpless female" card a lot.
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Not "helpless female" just MAYBE more femanine. Im not sure where she lives..ive had to learn things being a single parent of 4 kids too and even though i probably dont have 1/2 the skill set she does..some men were and still are intimidate by a strong no nonsense charector..some men actually like rescuing the damsal in distress without the thought of getting shot in the process :) btw..it really WAS a question for HER..;)
 
Faith-n-Christ

Faith-n-Christ

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Jewel5712 said:
Boy..impressive...i was right there with you till you said you could shoot your own food if need be...here in the suburbs..id probably end up shooting my neighbors cat and since being arrested doesnt sound fun..ill just go to the local grocery store..

Question..do men tend to get intimidated by you?
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Yes years ago an old fiance, now friend confessed to that. I was engaged once and married once. My ex- that was just a mess. I let him wear the pants. I have no need or desire to out do a man. I can just take care of myself. I would hope he would ask and enjoy my help. And that he would feel secure in knowing if he is not around I can take care of myself. ( he won't have to leave work to come fix a flat, or install a hose ) I have not dated since my divorce. Couple of years me time. I guess i'll find out.
 
Tommy379

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Faith-n-Christ said:
😀 yes. See I was raised old school Texas. Us women had to carry our own. I was hunting, fishing, gardening and riding horses for as far as I can remember. I was raised to be an independent take care of it your self woman. I desire a mate, but not for what he can do for me. Because I desire to share my life with him.
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Do you bring in your own income?
 
Jewel5712

Jewel5712

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Faith-n-Christ said:
😀 yes. See I was raised old school Texas. Us women had to carry our own. I was hunting, fishing, gardening and riding horses for as far as I can remember. I was raised to be an independent take care of it your self woman. I desire a mate, but not for what he can do for me. Because I desire to share my life with him.
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AWESOME...we were always pushed EDUCATION..EDUCATION..EDUCATION other than maybe the more physical aspects that you had growing up.we still had chores..gardening..owing lawn etc but in a probably smaller residental setting..small town..
 
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