First the sin issue.
People confuse justification with sanctification.
Justification is what Jesus achieved on the cross, he paid the full price
of sin. Sanctification the ongoing process of being changed refined and
all the dross being burnt away. A life long process,
Then the election issue
No one not one person can save themselves, they cannot even be convicted
by themselves. It’s the Holy Spirit who convicts, woes, draws us. Even if we might
think it is us, its not. We would not even believe in God without the revelation
of the Holy Spirit.
Born again
Means a new creation, a new alive spiritual person. It means a person who
surrenders to Jesus, a person who realises their own sin, who humbles themselves,
who cries out to God. A person who becomes awake spiritually. Deep cries out to
Deep. Even that is not of ourselves it’s the drawing of the Holy Spirit.
Sin after being born again.
We all do things wrong see the sanctification bit. The difference is that a
new creation, new person washed by the blood of the lamb develops a tender
conscience. We feel regret more, we feel remorse, we know when we are doing
something which doesn’t please God. We get spiritually hungry and thirsty.
At least I do! For a born again person if they try to live without God it’s like
walking through a desert. People can and do enter that desert and can be in it
for a long time. But the hunger for God is always there. Think of the story of
The Prodigal Son fo example.
None of it is us, even if we think it is. It’s God the Holy Spirit. He draws us,
He convicts us. Thankfully we are sustained and upheld by God and we don’t
have to rely on just our own strength. If we did none of us would make it.