I need help Lord, I need this situation with my daughter fixed

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Soc1

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Father,
This situation is killing me, my health is poor and each day I fall apart, Im breaking, my heart is broken, and Im losing faith and hope. Im losing the will to live. God if you love us half as much as I love my mentally ill daughter, youd restore us. Why arent you? I hurt in my soul. What did I do so wrong in life God to deserve this constant torment? What did my daughter do, to be so afflicted? Why does her mother prosper and have an easy life when she has caused many of my daughters problems, where is her millstone? why do I have the Millstone around my neck? You used to answer my prayers, sometimes before I asked for them. This is the most important thing Ive ever asked for, for my daughter to be healed and for us to be reunited. Her and I were a team, we were inseparable.Now there is much despair and loneliness. I keep praying and will continue,but how about some mercy God. A small miracle. Amen.
 
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Zachary24

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I have prayed for you and your daughter. God Bless you
 
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mar09

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Soc, i dont want to say this, but your health would truly be affected more if you let the situation do so. We here cannot answer all the questions, but God does have His good time to make things beautiful. Not easy, i know, but Wait on the Lord, yes i say Wait just a little bit more, one day at a time. Before you know it, His answer is at your doorstep!

He is our Fortress and our Deliverer, remember... Our Comfort in the time of trouble, our Refuge in the time of Storm, our Healer in the time of sickness, our Helper in the time of need...
 
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mar09 said:
Soc, i dont want to say this, but your health would truly be affected more if you let the situation do so. We here cannot answer all the questions, but God does have His good time to make things beautiful. Not easy, i know, but Wait on the Lord, yes i say Wait just a little bit more, one day at a time. Before you know it, His answer is at your doorstep!

He is our Fortress and our Deliverer, remember... Our Comfort in the time of trouble, our Refuge in the time of Storm, our Healer in the time of sickness, our Helper in the time of need...
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If you dont want to say this, why do you? Especially since what you said doesnt make sense about my health.

Please save all the empty encouragement, this has gone on far too long. Before I know it? The shock of this answered may kill me at this point. If you care to please just say a prayer for us. Otherwise let all of the trite phrases go please, Ive had my fill of them. Thank you and God Bless.
 
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mar09

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Soc1 said:
If you dont want to say this, why do you? Especially since what you said doesnt make sense about my health.

Please save all the empty encouragement, this has gone on far too long. Before I know it? The shock of this answered may kill me at this point. If you care to please just say a prayer for us. Otherwise let all of the trite phrases go please, Ive had my fill of them. Thank you and God Bless.
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I'm sorry, soc. I checked on cc just before bed, and yours was the last prayer item i have visited last night. Maybe my wording was wrong, but that's alright. We do pray for you and others needing that here.
 
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littlestarsmum

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I’m so sorry to hear that, friend. Please know that I’ll be praying for you and your daughter, asking God to touch you with His healing hands, draw you closer to Himself and to each other in the days ahead. May He assure you of His constant care and intimate involvement in everything that concerns you and your daughter. Stay strong in Him. Blessings!
 
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Soc1

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mar09 said:
I'm sorry, soc. I checked on cc just before bed, and yours was the last prayer item i have visited last night. Maybe my wording was wrong, but that's alright. We do pray for you and others needing that here.
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No maybes about it people do not think before they write or speak. Words can be very damaging, It isnt alright, Please dont respond further
 
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Soc1

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littlestarsmum said:
I’m so sorry to hear that, friend. Please know that I’ll be praying for you and your daughter, asking God to touch you with His healing hands, draw you closer to Himself and to each other in the days ahead. May He assure you of His constant care and intimate involvement in everything that concerns you and your daughter. Stay strong in Him. Blessings!
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Thank you and God Bless you and Yours
 
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Lord God help them. Have mercy on them and their situation. In the name of Jesus, Amen.
 
calibob

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Soc1 said:
Father,
This situation is killing me, my health is poor and each day I fall apart, Im breaking, my heart is broken, and Im losing faith and hope. Im losing the will to live. God if you love us half as much as I love my mentally ill daughter, youd restore us. Why arent you? I hurt in my soul. What did I do so wrong in life God to deserve this constant torment? What did my daughter do, to be so afflicted? Why does her mother prosper and have an easy life when she has caused many of my daughters problems, where is her millstone? why do I have the Millstone around my neck? You used to answer my prayers, sometimes before I asked for them. This is the most important thing Ive ever asked for, for my daughter to be healed and for us to be reunited. Her and I were a team, we were inseparable.Now there is much despair and loneliness. I keep praying and will continue,but how about some mercy God. A small miracle. Amen.
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When I use the check mark it is the fastest way for me to say amen. Many people think that mental illness is imaginary but I know first hand it is not. Seek help from someone who knows what they are talking about. Be advised proclaiming themselves to be wise most psychiatrists be come fools and deny God. They can still be of help, they are doctors. Just don't expect any miracles through them. One other thing. You sound understandably depressed you you might consider getting some professional help too until things improve.

I won't say I'll pray. I say I pray for you. that's all calibob
 
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Soc1

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calibob said:
When I use the check mark it is the fastest way for me to say amen. Many people think that mental illness is imaginary but I know first hand it is not. Seek help from someone who knows what they are talking about. Be advised proclaiming themselves to be wise most psychiatrists be come fools and deny God. They can still be of help, they are doctors. Just don't expect any miracles through them. One other thing. You sound understandably depressed you you might consider getting some professional help too until things improve.

I won't say I'll pray. I say I pray for you. that's all calibob
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Thank you Bob, I wonder what the term Godspeed means these days, God Bless you.
 
calibob

calibob

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I don't know either. I saw om you tube yesterday that there is at least 15 dialects of english spoken within the U.S. alone.
 
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Soc1

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calibob said:
I don't know either. I saw om you tube yesterday that there is at least 15 dialects of english spoken within the U.S. alone.
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I thought it meant that God acted quickly. He doesnt, I miss my daughter and I know she suffers greatly. God has all the time in the Universe, we dont. My daughter was a great Joy to me, The greatest Joy Ive ever had. For some reason we are in torment, while her mother who is either borderline evil or is evil personified, takes advantage of my child's condition and uses her as a weapon. The mother is fat and happy, for some reason I get to wear the Millstone around my neck, I dont deserve it, and my beautiful daughter is innocent in life, why is she having this torment? Id love for God to toss me a bone here, doesnt have to have meat or marrow, just something to let me know he is fixing this, something tangible. Preferably before I go off the deep end, which is very close.
 
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Why does her mother prosper and have an easy life when she has caused many of my daughters problems, where is her millstone?
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For years I felt this way about my children and their mother. Thoughts of suicide were a companion. How could my children and I suffer where the mother has it so good? My children are healing and I am healing. We are mostly healed. I do not feel that way about the mother now. I pray and firmly believe that your situation will resolve.
 
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Soc1

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JamieW said:
For years I felt this way about my children and their mother. Thoughts of suicide were a companion. How could my children and I suffer where the mother has it so good? My children are healing and I am healing. We are mostly healed. I do not feel that way about the mother now. I pray and firmly believe that your situation will resolve.
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I will be sending you a private message if you dont mind. Thank you for the prayer and your belief, I hope it resolves in our reunion, I miss her greatly.
God Bless you and yours.
 
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