ok ben
im not at home yet but ill start now
you asked how
Matthew 6:14-15
14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:
15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
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fits into the promise of eternal security
this indeed is a conditional promise ben
in that regard you understand it completely
14 is the promise
15 is the condition
but what you dont understand
is what this promise is speaking of...
it is speaking to those who are already saved
forever
and the punishment to those who are currently His (He is their Father)
who do not forgive men
is when their works are tried by fire
they will not endure it
they will burn up.....
how i know this is regarding treasures in heaven? well first of all
16 Moreover when ye fast, be not, as the hypocrites, of a sad countenance: for they disfigure their faces, that they may appear unto men to fast. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.
17 But thou, when thou fastest, anoint thine head, and wash thy face;
18 That thou appear not unto men to fast, but unto thy Father which is in secret: and thy Father, which seeth in secret, shall reward thee openly.
19 Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:
20 But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal:
21 For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
This is Jesus explaining the difference of earning treasures in heaven and on earth as part of the same message
1 corinthians 3
11 For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ.
12 Now if any man build upon this foundation gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, stubble;
13 Every man's work shall be made manifest: for the day shall declare it, because it shall be revealed by fire; and the fire shall try every man's work of what sort it is.
14 If any man's work abide which he hath built thereupon, he shall receive a reward.
15 If any man's work shall be burned, he shall suffer loss: but he himself shall be saved; yet so as by fire.
here is the same principal being shown again
God would need to break His promises to make matthew 6 mean what YOU THINK it means
here is another one of His promises that paired with the principal im showing you
should clearly show you
once you are His
you are saved
forever
john 6
37 All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out.
38 For I came down from heaven, not to do mine own will, but the will of him that sent me.
39 And this is the Father's will which hath sent me, that of all which he hath given me I should lose nothing, but should raise it up again at the last day.
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40 And this is the will of him that sent me, that every one which seeth the Son, and believeth on him, may have everlasting life: and I will raise him up at the last day.
the promise here is eternal security
37-39
and the condition is 40
to all those who believe on Jesus