The Bible says what the fruit is of those who Jesus is coming back for. And it is not what some in the church, including pastors and leaders think it is. It is not your church attendance, your Bible study, your church support, your programs, the correctness of your doctrine, the ardent proclamation of his grace, the praise of his name. But that is what some in the church think shows they belong to God but who live in disobedience and lawlessness. They will be among those who are rejected by Jesus because they were lawless and did not do the will of the Father in being a new creation according to the fruit of the Spirit. They say they have faith but by their lives show they do not. They are in the land of the thorns and thistles that will be burned up in the end.
Don't be a thorn bush when Jesus returns. That's what matters. Leave the matter of if you can lose your salvation to the contentious who don't know what counts.