If you read Christs answer in Matthew you will find he speaks about his coming after the tribulation of those days.
You continue with the same error Tanakh, which is that you don't understand that the gathering of the church is a separate event from the Lord's return to the earth to end age. The Lord Coming "after the tribulation of those days" is in reference to when He returns to the earth, not when He gathers the church!
Our conclusion is based on cross-referencing and comparing all related scriptures and we apply all of those characteristics to end-time events in order to come to a thorough interpretation. You on the other hand create apologetics and fail to apply other pertinent scriptures.
You are unable to conceive of the gathering of the church as being a separate event vs. the Lord's return to the earth to end the age.
You have not truly believed that Christ took upon himself the wrath that all believers deserve. For if you did, you would not be believing that the church is to go through God's wrath, which Jesus already satisfied.
You continue to ignore the scriptures that proclaim that believers are not appointed to suffer God's wrath. But what do you do? When presented with that information, instead you distort the scripture, inventing apologetics to counter what you have been given. And this goes on, and on and on. You guys never listen to scriptural reasoning.
That scriptural facts are:
1). Jesus went the Father's house to prepare dwelling places for the entire church. And He said that He was coming back to get us and take us back to the Father's house that where He is we may be also. - John 14:1-3
2). 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 is a detailed account of when Jesus comes back to get us as promised in John 14:1-3.
3). Scripture states that the Church is not appointed to suffer God's coming wrath (1 Thes.5:9), that Jesus rescues us from the coming wrath (1 Thes.1:10) and that Jesus said that he would keep us "out of" that time of God's wrath (Rev.3:10)
4). Revelation 19:6,8 shows the bride/church receiving her fine linen, white and clean at the wedding of the Lamb. And then Rev.19:14 shows the armies of heaven following the Lord out of heaven and wearing that same fine linen, white and clean and riding on white horses.
If the bride/church is following Christ out of heaven, then we would have to already be in heaven!