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I am supposed to get "Plenty of sleep" tonight because i got a week of testing to look forward to... but.... I honestly dont think I know how to go to bed early
 
My boyfriend has cussed me out a handful of times. Is this normal? Christian men, would you cuss your girlfriend or wife? He says I have thin skin and I need to get over it. But it hurts. We are long distance so he cusses me out through Skype, but it still stings a lot. I don't know what to do. He says good morning and good night everyday through text. He calls me and tells me he loves me. I care about him and I enjoy the attention, but I hate when he cusses me out. He says I haven't been through anything compared to him and that I need to grow up.
I would appreciate advice from brothers and sisters here.

Do you guys think I'm a pansy?
 
MollyConnor said:
My boyfriend has cussed me out a handful of times. Is this normal? Christian men, would you cuss your girlfriend or wife? He says I have thin skin and I need to get over it. But it hurts. We are long distance so he cusses me out through Skype, but it still stings a lot. I don't know what to do. He says good morning and good night everyday through text. He calls me and tells me he loves me. I care about him and I enjoy the attention, but I hate when he cusses me out. He says I haven't been through anything compared to him and that I need to grow up.
I would appreciate advice from brothers and sisters here.

Do you guys think I'm a pansy?
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You mean he cusses at you?
Like, not "I think so and such event is bleep" but "you are bleep"?
If so, I'd personally tell him to bleep off. He has no right to treat you that way.
 
MollyConnor said:
My boyfriend has cussed me out a handful of times. Is this normal? Christian men, would you cuss your girlfriend or wife? He says I have thin skin and I need to get over it. But it hurts. We are long distance so he cusses me out through Skype, but it still stings a lot. I don't know what to do. He says good morning and good night everyday through text. He calls me and tells me he loves me. I care about him and I enjoy the attention, but I hate when he cusses me out. He says I haven't been through anything compared to him and that I need to grow up.
I would appreciate advice from brothers and sisters here.

Do you guys think I'm a pansy?
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MollyConner, any Christian man should love you as Christ loves the church. That's how the Bible says Christian men should love their wives. If he's your boyfriend I can only assume you'd like to be married one day. He clearly isn't following the biblical way of how to love. Love is patient, love is kind, it doesn't envy, it doesn't boast it keeps no record of wrong...etc. I don't think this guy is ready to be in a relationship if he's treating you this way. Based on what you've said in this post this is a him problem, not a you problem. You aren't being a pansy. Love you girl. If you need to talk skype me.
 
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