Where are all the single christian men?!
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It is of course centered around Gods timing..I stated in a previous post that I had been praying for my husband for about eleven years.. however I didn't do everything I was supposed to do in those 11 years. I am abstinent now but there were times I wasn't... There was pain I had to be delivered from.. so the single season is for a reason whether it is to change some things in you, or the person God has for you, or others that are watching you walk out your single season.. I have been a single mother for 14 years and I never ever would have thought that that would be me and deep inside I fight with the fact that no God fearing man will want me because of my past, but that's when I have to dive deeper into the Word and the Word says I am in right standing with God and that Jesus exchanged my wrongs with His right so that whomever my husband is, he will see Jesus, he will see the anointing of God, and not some poor single mother with her head down, cause I have no reason to feel that way except some people have tried to make me feel that way (unfortunately it's been people at church mostly). I am super busy in my life right now and the struggle is soo real when you get lonely... I'm cool in the bad times lol for me it's the good times that you don't have anyone to share with that are the worst. But like I said I put on praise and worship, I pray, I dance, I keep God first cause I swear I wouldn't have made it without Him..maybe one day here I will share my testimony..but my thing is I don't even see anybody in my age group anymore.. everybody I see in my city is either much older or too young...I'm really confused about that..even at my church, I have nobody to relate to, everyone is a senior citizen for the most part... That's fine, I just don't see anyone that looks like me.. quite discouraging
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Its soo funny... Its hard to meet someone right for any person, but i think its that have to be hard to meet true love, so that we can appreciate and not easy to do something bad and lost them... I trust my real couple from God is a the best man which God give for me later, Coz i trust God will give the best for all kids of God
Its soo funny... Its hard to meet someone right for any person, but i think its that have to be hard to meet true love, so that we can appreciate and not easy to do something bad and lost them... I trust my real couple from God is a the best man which God give for me later, Coz i trust God will give the best for all kids of God
You all are making me laugh over here. I am not desperate nor have I spent years looking. I don't just sit around just hoping some man will find me. lol Some people assume, and you don't even know me. 
You all are making me laugh over here. I am not desperate nor have I spent years looking. I don't just sit around just hoping some man will find me. lol Some people assume, and you don't even know me.
I don't just sit around just hoping some man will find me. That's good. After all, the UPS/USPS/Pizza delivery person isn't likely to be a one's future mate.
Some people assume, and you don't even know me. There could very well be some women out there reading this thread that are coming to the realization that they don't have to take the incompetent/incapable/sit-around-and-wait approach to getting a significant other.
I met a gal through this website & we were talking on the phone and/or facetime almost daily for about 3 months before I traveled from ND to the west coast to meet her in person.
By the end of the first day we were in each other's company we mutually agreed to go exclusive.
We had first become good friends as best as was possible given the distance factor.
By the end of the first day we were in each other's company we mutually agreed to go exclusive.
We had first become good friends as best as was possible given the distance factor.
I really hope that's not exactly what he meant. I didn't follow my own advice about it and foolishly married an immature, ungodly gal who cheated on me while I was away for work and divorced me when I found out, refusing to try to fix things. I so deeply desire a family, and a good relationship with a woman who truly loves the Lord. Since she divorced me without my agreeing to it, does this mean I've got a life sentence to the marital garbage can without a family for the rest of my life? I don't know, but I really hope not. I've done years of introspective examination and repentance for my part in the failed relationship, but I don't blame myself for what she did.
It breaks my heart still and i don't know what to do about it. It's beyond profoundly lonely. I'm dismayed that people see the word "divorced" next to my name (as I do when I see it next to others) because they will probably assume that I condone divorce or that I pursued or agreed to it. I don't ever feel it's truly justified, though I think God gave some grace to people in my situation. I really hope so. I guess it's just the way the cookie crumbles?
It breaks my heart still and i don't know what to do about it. It's beyond profoundly lonely. I'm dismayed that people see the word "divorced" next to my name (as I do when I see it next to others) because they will probably assume that I condone divorce or that I pursued or agreed to it. I don't ever feel it's truly justified, though I think God gave some grace to people in my situation. I really hope so. I guess it's just the way the cookie crumbles?
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I really hope that's not exactly what he meant. I didn't follow my own advice about it and foolishly married an immature, ungodly gal who cheated on me while I was away for work and divorced me when I found out, refusing to try to fix things. I so deeply desire a family, and a good relationship with a woman who truly loves the Lord. Since she divorced me without my agreeing to it, does this mean I've got a life sentence to the marital garbage can without a family for the rest of my life? I don't know, but I really hope not. I've done years of introspective examination and repentance for my part in the failed relationship, but I don't blame myself for what she did.
It breaks my heart still and i don't know what to do about it. It's beyond profoundly lonely. I'm dismayed that people see the word "divorced" next to my name (as I do when I see it next to others) because they will probably assume that I condone divorce or that I pursued or agreed to it. I don't ever feel it's truly justified, though I think God gave some grace to people in my situation. I really hope so. I guess it's just the way the cookie crumbles?
It breaks my heart still and i don't know what to do about it. It's beyond profoundly lonely. I'm dismayed that people see the word "divorced" next to my name (as I do when I see it next to others) because they will probably assume that I condone divorce or that I pursued or agreed to it. I don't ever feel it's truly justified, though I think God gave some grace to people in my situation. I really hope so. I guess it's just the way the cookie crumbles?