Ladies...here it is! What men want.

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kaylagrl said:
Agreed,certainly true. I had a girlfriend that was single. When I asked what type of man she was looking for she said "you know The Rock"? I said "the actor Dwayne Johnson"? Yes,I want a man like him. She was dead serious. She's a sweetheart and pretty enough but no super model and far from thin. I said I'd keep looking to see if I could find that type of man for her.That was several years ago.Needless to say she's single and I'm married.
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Friends that aren't single are very rarely helpful for those that are I have learned from experience lol.

EDIT: I should note; at least on the subject of finding a date/boyfriend/girlfriend. Also for that matter single friends are very rarely helpful I have noticed from experience too lol.
 
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kaylagrl said:
Agreed,certainly true. I had a girlfriend that was single. When I asked what type of man she was looking for she said "you know The Rock"? I said "the actor Dwayne Johnson"? Yes,I want a man like him. She was dead serious. She's a sweetheart and pretty enough but no super model and far from thin. I said I'd keep looking to see if I could find that type of man for her.That was several years ago.Needless to say she's single and I'm married.
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Haha Exactly. some ppl are very determined =P And I read all the posts here and like people have said it has been alot of bashing back and forth not just shawn being forward about his thoughts but also him getting alot of crap so I dont think anyone is innocent here =) We should just drop it and move on =)
 
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I know that, my Brother. I've got nothing but love for you. Oh yeah, and lot's of respect! :cool:

I love that you're part of the CC family. Life keeps getting better!
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Same to you my Brother, I love your old school values (because they mostly resonate with mine) and you have my respect as well. That's pretty awesome to retire at 51 dang....you must have planned very well...most people now a days are still working at that age b/c we all know social security is really social insecurity...but that's another topic...let me stay on track...here....
 
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Mods, please close this thread. It has turned very nasty and ugly and people are resorting to insults and name-calling. :/ Jesus is doing a face palm at nearly everyone on this thread right now.. guarantee it.
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We're all good. Close it if you want to. I cannot stand abuse and arrogance. And Shawn was rude to a poster here. Very rude. I will always stand up against arrogance. If that gets me banned then so be it. Mods on here know me better. Shawn has a history on here. But I have nothing more to say.People on here know me, I don't start arguments,ever,but I will stand for what I believe.
 
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I have a question for everyone:

How do you show love to an abusive controlling husband and his wife, who is the victim?

Especially when the husband and the wife attack others?

And especially when I get the impression that the guy will not listen to reason regarding his problems nor his wife?

Both of them need help.

This is a frustrating situation for me to read.
 
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Sofia20 said:
Haha Exactly. some ppl are very determined =P And I read all the posts here and like people have said it has been alot of bashing back and forth not just shawn being forward about his thoughts but also him getting alot of crap so I dont think anyone is innocent here =) We should just drop it and move on =)
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Lets shake paws er hands and move on. You get more flies with honey.You may have good points in what you say but if you put it across in the wrong way no one will listen. Now lets find something we can agree on for the next discussion.
 
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kaylagrl said:
We're all good. Close it if you want to. I cannot stand abuse and arrogance. And Shawn was rude to a poster here. Very rude. I will always stand up against arrogance. If that gets me banned then so be it. Mods on here know me better. Shawn has a history on here. But I have nothing more to say.People on here know me, I don't start arguments,ever,but I will stand for what I believe.
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I cant stand arrogance either but he wasnt rude just open and opinionated/honest. if you think that is rude well oh well...Some mods and people know me on here and they know Im not a rude person just easily gets defensive and my husband is amazing just has strong opinions against women who think men should be this this and this...
 
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Poor phil36.

Somehow, I don't think any of this is what he envisioned when he made this thread.

Although this is always a hot topic whenever it resurfaces and, unfortunately, almost always ends in the same result.
 
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kaylagrl said:
Lets shake paws er hands and move on. You get more flies with honey.You may have good points in what you say but if you put it across in the wrong way no one will listen. Now lets find something we can agree on for the next discussion.
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True that! Im okay with moving on and shakin paws lol. And we did agree on some stuff on here after all =)
 
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kaylagrl said:
We're all good. Close it if you want to. I cannot stand abuse and arrogance. And Shawn was rude to a poster here. Very rude. I will always stand up against arrogance. If that gets me banned then so be it. Mods on here know me better. Shawn has a history on here. But I have nothing more to say.People on here know me, I don't start arguments,ever,but I will stand for what I believe.
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I'm with you, Kayla. Abuse and arrogance make me nuts. And I love that you always stand up for what you believe. :) I just wonder why some of the adults here, refuse to act like adults. :(
 
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I cant stand arrogance either but he wasnt rude just open and opinionated/honest. if you think that is rude well oh well...Some mods and people know me on here and they know Im not a rude person just easily gets defensive and my husband is amazing just has strong opinions against women who think men should be this this and this...
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Look I sure don't agree with the womens lib attitude. My mom was a stay at home mom,and an amazing woman. Strong opinions are fine...I don't want to get back into it. Ive seen a lot of abuse and arrogance against women in my family.Im sensitive to it. He has strong opinions, so do I. Lets just chill and find something we agree on.
 
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KAYLA..... BLUE....... U-T-A-H..!!!.......there you guys are..... Ya know ya keep hidin like this and I'm gonna take it personal..... Say kayla, blue... Maybe we oughta derail this thread like the nanny thread....... We put that one on a different planet...... Rotfl..... Ya shoulda been there for that one bro.... Boy you would a had a blast....
 
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kaylagrl said:
Look I sure don't agree with the womens lib attitude. My mom was a stay at home mom,and an amazing woman. Strong opinions are fine...I don't want to get back into it. Ive seen a lot of abuse and arrogance against women in my family.Im sensitive to it. He has strong opinions, so do I. Lets just chill and find something we agree on.
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Yeah I get that, and also people on the forums same as here has a tendency to get very offended or defensive instead of doing the christian thing and just saying thats your opinion, nice, this is mine. =) Im guilty of that as well =P but luckily we can move on now ^_^ it was an interesting topic tho. Wonder what would happen if women actually became like that in todays society hmm..
 
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KAYLA..... BLUE....... U-T-A-H..!!!.......there you guys are..... Ya know ya keep hidin like this and I'm gonna take it personal..... Say kayla, blue... Maybe we oughta derail this thread like the nanny thread....... We put that one on a different planet...... Rotfl..... Ya shoulda been there for that one bro.... Boy you would a had a blast....
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​If I recall correctly, Kayla, Utah and myself WERE on the nanny thread..lol
 
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Utah, how's my nephew?...
 
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​If I recall correctly, Kayla, Utah and myself WERE on the nanny thread..lol
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I thought that's what i said?.....ugh.... Maybe the bumps ain't worn off......
 
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spunkycat08 said:
I have a question for everyone:

How do you show love to an abusive controlling husband and his wife, who is the victim?

Especially when the husband and the wife attack others?

And especially when I get the impression that the guy will not listen to reason regarding his problems nor his wife?

Both of them need help.

This is a frustrating situation for me to read.
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Three different times in my life I saw a man hitting "his" woman. On all three occasions I stepped in to defend the woman and all three times I was met with resistance from her. Three different couples, three different situations, same results. My hands are washed of that nonsense.

How do you help them? Prayer and firearms training sounds like a good tangent.
 
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Sofia20 said:
Yeah I get that, and also people on the forums same as here has a tendency to get very offended or defensive instead of doing the christian thing and just saying thats your opinion, nice, this is mine. =) Im guilty of that as well =P but luckily we can move on now ^_^ it was an interesting topic tho. Wonder what would happen if women actually became like that in todays society hmm..
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I don't know but I think its time to share recipes and cleaning tips,get this thread in a good direction. :) Baking soda cleans gunk under stove burners like a dream. Now your turn...
 
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