Ladies...here it is! What men want.
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Yeah I get that, growing up in an abusive home is never easy and follows you a very long time. I have kinda the same thing so Im very protective of what I have since I didnt have alot. But not all people grow up but have that dumb list forever and I think that is whats bugging me and my hubby alot that, alot of ppl have too many expectations which is very foolish.
I'm not bashing his relationship with his wife -- I couldn't care less. I'm calling him out on his overall attitude. There's history here, brother, this isn't someone having a bad day and incorrectly taking part in transferred anger; that's understandable and forgivable. This here is a whole different matter.
K
I don't need you to take it back. Im not so insecure that a stranger mocking me is going to ruin my day. Your "husband" was rude to another poster FIRST. And he was so arrogant that I said he needed to kiss his wifes feet because any woman that could live with a man like that has to be a saint. He was rude to another poster and she I thought she needed defending.
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Yes, I've been keeping up with the almost 10 pages of threads....and yes both sides have thrown their emotions into the blender and thrown verbal barbs at each other....sheesh with amount of heat here though...maybe I just want to stay single now?? 
but it was interesting to read the differing opinions just not reading fellow members cage fighting each other over words on the internet ....lol we need to discuss information/viewpoint minus the personal attacks which happens a lot in several threads....it's a work in progress...hopefully we get there....
but it was interesting to read the differing opinions just not reading fellow members cage fighting each other over words on the internet ....lol we need to discuss information/viewpoint minus the personal attacks which happens a lot in several threads....it's a work in progress...hopefully we get there....
Well Im a freshie here so don't know as both you guys have been here longer than me....just wanting to hear discussion not argument that's all
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• Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
• Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
• Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
• Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
• During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
• Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
• Be happy to see him.
• Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
• Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first – remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
• Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.
• Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner . Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.
• Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
• Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
• Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
Hopefully yo will have learned something.
• Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
• Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
• Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
• Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
• During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
• Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
• Be happy to see him.
• Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
• Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first – remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
• Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.
• Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner . Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.
• Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
• Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
• Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
Hopefully yo will have learned something
.This line had me really laughing.....~• Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. Well in today's terminology if I was a little gay I wouldn't be married to a man....So I'm glad I'm not gay.... How about I will be happy instead.....I think that is about as interesting as he wants it.....lol
K
Agreed,certainly true. I had a girlfriend that was single. When I asked what type of man she was looking for she said "you know The Rock"? I said "the actor Dwayne Johnson"? Yes,I want a man like him. She was dead serious. She's a sweetheart and pretty enough but no super model and far from thin. I said I'd keep looking to see if I could find that type of man for her.That was several years ago.Needless to say she's single and I'm married.
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