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Ultimatum77

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Does Shawn feel that the only way to get his point across that he is "correct in his way of thinking and that everyone should follow him no matter what" is to make up a female username to reply to his posts?

Sounds controlling to me.

If I was Shawn's wife I would watch this video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Uk1TXqPZhs
Thank you for caring so much about me. He is not controlling but very loving and amazing. He just hates controlling, ignorant and manipulative women, which I see alot of in America =)
 
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Do I need to go on Chat and show my face? or do I need to talk to the mods to talk to you that Im actually a woman?? Are you actually that daf? AND I asked you... would you let your husband kiss your feet? IS HE a dog?? I feel sorry for him :)


Ever hear of the show Catfish? Ya,still not buying it. Don't care either way. And once again,now listen close, didn't say my husband had to kiss my feet. I said Shawn should kiss his wifes feet.

But you know what ,my husband loves to give foot rubs and I wont get more intimate than that. We have no issues with each others feet,kissing or otherwise. We're both each others servants. We please each other. A neck rub,back rub,foot rub, we're in our 40s everything needs massaging. But lets say you are Mrs Shawn,get back to us when you've been married forty years, or even twenty and then we'll talk.
 
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Ever hear of the show Catfish? Ya,still not buying it. Don't care either way. And once again,now listen close, didn't say my husband had to kiss my feet. I said Shawn should kiss his wifes feet.

But you know what ,my husband loves to give foot rubs and I wont get more intimate than that. We have no issues with each others feet,kissing or otherwise. We're both each others servants. We please each other. A neck rub,back rub,foot rub, we're in our 40s everything needs massaging. But lets say you are Mrs Shawn,get back to us when you've been married forty years, or even twenty and then we'll talk.
Have you ever heard of the term webcam? =) Why bother with a woman that wont listen anyway...
But aww he kisses your feet...So he is a dog :D is that him on the picture?
 
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Does Shawn feel that the only way to get his point across that he is "correct in his way of thinking and that everyone should follow him no matter what" is to make up a female username to reply to his posts?

Sounds controlling to me.

If I was Shawn's wife I would watch this video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Uk1TXqPZhs
Ahha! You did me one better. Good job!
 
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@Zero prayed for you brother...that God will help you through your loss...
 

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• Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
• Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
• Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
• Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
• During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
• Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
• Be happy to see him.
• Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
• Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first – remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
• Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.
• Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner . Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.
• Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
• Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
• Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.


Hopefully yo will have learned something :cool::rolleyes:.


Ok so why not just hire a maid and a cook...

it would probably cost a lot less in the long run... (no wedding, no rings, no second car, no valentines gifts, anniversary presents, etc..) Plus... not sharing a bathroom.. :p
 
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I just couldnt help myself. But hey they think Im a dude! how nice is that then... =/ People on here just arent nice. I expected more from Christians =)
 

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Thank you for caring so much about me. He is not controlling but very loving and amazing. He just hates controlling, ignorant and manipulative women, which I see a lot of in America =)
Sofia20:

How do you see a lot of controlling, ignorant and manipulative women in America when according to your profile your country (location) is Finland?

Please explain that one to me.

How do you know so much about Shawn2516, a married man who lives in the U.S. when you are miles and miles across the ocean from him?

How do you know that he is very loving and amazing?
 
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There's also another extreme way to handle controlling people...you don't need a therapist at all, just a taser...just kidding guys....

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Sofia20:

How do you see a lot of controlling, ignorant and manipulative women in America when according to your profile your country (location) is Finland?

Please explain that one to me.

How do you know so much about Shawn2516, a married man who lives in the U.S. when you are miles and miles across the ocean from him?

How do you know that he is very loving and amazing?
Well let me tell you a secret... we are...MARRIED... SURPRISE!!! :D
 

melita916

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I just couldnt help myself. But hey they think Im a dude! how nice is that then... =/ People on here just arent nice. I expected more from Christians =)
two wrongs don't make a right, though.
 

spunkycat08

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I just couldn't help myself. But hey they think I'm a dude! how nice is that then... =/ People on here just aren't nice. I expected more from Christians =)
And you are better then that according to this reply?
 
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And you are better then that according to this reply?
Well I dont go bashing guys around on forums like some... Im now just defending my husband and myself... because well you women will fight till you die and so will I ^_^ let the wars begin.
 

spunkycat08

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Well let me tell you a secret... we are...MARRIED... SURPRISE!!! :D
Oh...

So you are Shawn2516 wife.

I would say congratulations, but not to someone who comes across to me as controlling.
 
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