Ladies...here it is! What men want.
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Quote "You want your husband kissing your feet? Is he a dog? "
I didn't say my husband should kiss MY FEET. I said Shawn should kiss HIS WIFES feet! Nice try though,you might want to actually read the response next time.
Quote " Shawn, MY HUSBAND "
Ya, I doubt that. Nice try though Shawn.
Quote "is a smart man and has only here said what so many men are afraid of saying because women just give men who speak up for themselves crap"
A smart man,well everyone has an opinion... Women? What women? You know what all women want? I thought only God and Mel Gibson knew that. My husband isn't intimated by a woman who can speak and think for herself. But hey,I prefer a mature man,thats just me.
Quote "I encourage men to speak up like this "
I bet you do Shawn. But I don't see any men cowering here asking you to pick up for them because they are so afraid of women. Im pretty sure the men in here can handle themselves without your love coaching.
Quote "respect goes both ways and sadly women think they own the world now a days'
Of course respect goes both ways. What women think they own the world? In what way? What stats do you have to back your opinion up? Yes, there are nasty women out there,yes there are man hating feminists but there are males that are jerks out there and abuse women. So what? You don't say all women or all men,thats your opinion, its not fact.
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• Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
• Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
• Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
• Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
• During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
• Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
• Be happy to see him.
• Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
• Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first – remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
• Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.
• Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner . Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.
• Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
• Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
• Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
Hopefully yo will have learned something
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• Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
• Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
• Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
• Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
• During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
• Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
• Be happy to see him.
• Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
• Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first – remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
• Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.
• Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner . Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.
• Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
• Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
• Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
Hopefully yo will have learned something
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Does Shawn feel that the only way to get his point across that he is "correct in his way of thinking and that everyone should follow him no matter what" is to make up a female username to reply to his posts?
Sounds controlling to me.
If I was Shawn's wife I would watch this video.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Uk1TXqPZhs
Sounds controlling to me.
If I was Shawn's wife I would watch this video.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Uk1TXqPZhs
1. Go to the ladies forum or craigslist there are tons of women making lists of how real men should be.
2. How many women dont have a choice between career and children because they are either divorced or just got pregnant and the guy left. Good choice in a guy I say =)
3. Usually if you dont need a man they wont show up either, Im proof of that. When I met my man I started to notice that I actually DO need him. Love is also something you need, if he said to you he married you cause he loved you he needed love in his life, which most ppl do. If he didnt need you he wouldnt have married you.
4. Cleaning for me takes 1-2 hours. Idk where you live for it to be sooo hard... and I dont eat fast food...
5. Shawn was talking bout flowers, not opening doors. In Finland women open door for men too. how bout that? Have you ever opened a door for someone than yourself or are you the type of girl that stands around waiting for a man to open it for you... *rolls eyes*
I agree that we need to respect and communicate with eachother but Why do I keep seeing men on here getting crap for speaking out? It makes me really mad... I thought this was a christian site. I guess christianity is different where I live...
2. How many women dont have a choice between career and children because they are either divorced or just got pregnant and the guy left. Good choice in a guy I say =)
3. Usually if you dont need a man they wont show up either, Im proof of that. When I met my man I started to notice that I actually DO need him. Love is also something you need, if he said to you he married you cause he loved you he needed love in his life, which most ppl do. If he didnt need you he wouldnt have married you.
4. Cleaning for me takes 1-2 hours. Idk where you live for it to be sooo hard... and I dont eat fast food...
5. Shawn was talking bout flowers, not opening doors. In Finland women open door for men too. how bout that? Have you ever opened a door for someone than yourself or are you the type of girl that stands around waiting for a man to open it for you... *rolls eyes*
I agree that we need to respect and communicate with eachother but Why do I keep seeing men on here getting crap for speaking out? It makes me really mad... I thought this was a christian site. I guess christianity is different where I live...
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