I do not "confess" to be forgiven...
Grace7x77 I cannot believe your basic relationship ignorance. Jesus was very simple. Sin is about doing something that hurts or upsets someone else by an action, stealing, assaulting, abusing someone.
Now saying sorry, is showing to the other person you regret it ever happened. It is making sure they know you would not do that again and feel bad about the harm done. It is communicating that message. COMMUNICATING the message of regret.
You are communicating not to be forgiven but to show you are no longer that person who did that action and you wish to establish a better relationship. The person may forgive you, they may not, but it is your intent to show you feel bad about all of it.
Your whole intent ignores this aspect of repentance. If you sinned against me would I ever know you had repented.
You talk as if this is an equation of morality, guilt and punishment, and there is no need to repent when the whole of scripture shouts out this is the first step to renewal and re-establishing the relationship.
Listen to Jesus in regard to Peter and his denial of Jesus before the crucifixion.
Simon, Simon, Satan has asked to sift all of you as wheat. But I have prayed for you, Simon, that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned back, strengthen your brothers.
Luke 22:31-32
The trust Peter had in Jesus that he would forgive him is based on the idea of him repenting or turned back from His denial would re-establish the relationship. This is about admiting hurt.
Jesus asked Peter 3 times did he love him? Peter is hurt. But Peter had denied Jesus 3 times at the cross, when he claimed so strongly he would die for Jesus, yet he fled like the wind. So easily we claim so much because it sounds good yet we have little back up.
The version of faith you are pushing Grace7x77 is a grace with no relationship or real edge. It is based on assumption and theory that you are accepted no matter the state of your heart which is hypocracy.
Your picture of a switch believe or not believe is meaningless. I can believe Jesus is the Son of God and still be a demon. Knowing who Jesus is does not mean you have a relationship with him. Assuming you are forgiven, but have no intention to change is empty, a contradiction, an affront to the gospel of righteousness and purity.
The truth is we can only open the door and ask for help and admit failure and debt, but that is everything compared to a closed door and a hard heart. I do not say this because of you, but for those who wonder at what you are saying without actually saying it and being honest.