Why we still single?

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I´m single because I was left alone (even by God)

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Rom 8:38 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,
Rom 8:39 Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

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Jesusismyrock

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Never initiated the intent of a relationship with a girl.
 
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Mello7

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Spent too much time in my twenties being fooled by the wrong men, then became disillusioned and a little bit isolated. Now...I'm chilling, waiting, half-looking....but mostly waiting.
 
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Rom 8:38 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,
Rom 8:39 Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

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No problem with that!

His love won´t hug me, like I was hugged with those who loved me.

His love won´t look like that HE CREATED specially for blessing men (or women).

His love won´t touch me, the way a woman naturally knows...

That´s Paul, and I am me. :eek:
 

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:) ))) it is so refreshing! Avoiding the topic is a quality which is so valuble to me, as well as asking a questions!
I AM SURE that His love may send you a woman you need but will you have got eyes to recognise her?
:) "It is just me" is the main reason always with everyone of the ppl here I think... at least it is mine one :) /except that I am not thinking about Paul when am saying it/
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:) ))) it is so refreshing! Avoiding the topic is a quality which is so valuble to me, as well as asking a questions!
I AM SURE that His love may send you a woman you need but will you have got eyes to recognise her?
:) "It is just me" is the main reason always with everyone of the ppl here I think... at least it is mine one :) /except that I am not thinking about Paul when am saying it/
;p
You could be that one He actually sent but, have you seated to think like Jesus said:

Luk 14:28 Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. What is the first thing you will do? Won't you sit down and figure out how much it will cost and if you have enough money to pay for it?
Luk 14:29 Otherwise, you will start building the tower, but not be able to finish. Then everyone who sees what is happening will laugh at you.
 
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I´m single because:

a) I´m afraid to fall short:



b) I´m afraid I have lived like that Samaritan woman, who never planned to be married (Jn 4:17)

c) I´m afraid that, after a short time I have enjoyed the woman I sought, God would send me a message, like that Ezekiel received (Eze 24:16 "Ezekiel, son of man, I will suddenly take the life of the person you love most. But I don't want you to complain or cry. ) asking me not to mourn that sorrow.

Do you have your own fears?

Are you alone "by God´s will"?

I´ve travelled enough, I asked her a lot and, when the sunset of life has come, I won´t keep on dreaming, I won´t chase those dreams...

Particularly when I know some ppl are seeking a woman to be:

1) Their personal nurse (a long story I haven´t told)
2) When some of them are so selfcentered, that they sought "a man´s come to seize this wealth" and, after getting old,
3) They chose a young men.

God never sent me a telegram saying: She´s the one I chose for you (and that DOESN´T MEAN I´m endorsing my faults on Him).

It´s just me (IT WASN´T THEIR FAULTS)

iT´S JUST me, who are AFRAID. :p
 
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fenafair64

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I feel God has not sent my better half to complete me. I have been married before and it ended in divorce so the next one is going to be forever!
 

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I´m single because:

a) I´m afraid to fall short:



b) I´m afraid I have lived like that Samaritan woman, who never planned to be married (Jn 4:17)

c) I´m afraid that, after a short time I have enjoyed the woman I sought, God would send me a message, like that Ezekiel received (Eze 24:16 "Ezekiel, son of man, I will suddenly take the life of the person you love most. But I don't want you to complain or cry. ) asking me not to mourn that sorrow.

Do you have your own fears?

Are you alone "by God´s will"?

I´ve travelled enough, I asked her a lot and, when the sunset of life has come, I won´t keep on dreaming, I won´t chase those dreams...

Particularly when I know some ppl are seeking a woman to be:

1) Their personal nurse (a long story I haven´t told)
2) When some of them are so selfcentered, that they sought "a man´s come to seize this wealth" and, after getting old,
3) They chose a young men.

God never sent me a telegram saying: She´s the one I chose for you (and that DOESN´T MEAN I´m endorsing my faults on Him).

It´s just me (IT WASN´T THEIR FAULTS)

iT´S JUST me, who are AFRAID. :p
... we - ppl are like that

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...I think nothing can happen without His blessing. Or if it happens without His blessing it won`t last long.

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If me name was "Orange", I would know -for sure- who was my other half...

 
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God takes CONTROL of everything of you, my friend... :eek:

On the other side, as someone said in her articles, sometimes, we have had too many briefcases open, too many fears and excuses...

I´m GLAD Jesus visited that Samaritan Woman. He just help her to make HER decisions and, CONVERSELY, He played the role of a matchmaker.

I´m sure 1 Samaritan man married a woman, afterwards He visited them in that village.

VISIT ME, Oh, Lord, with YOUR WISDOM and truth.

:)