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In fact, although I can´t talk for other ppl, I have the hunch everybody needs and longs to be loved.
HILARY DUFF LYRICS - What Dreams Are Made Of
HILARY DUFF LYRICS - What Dreams Are Made Of
I'm not tall enough.
I'm not Christian enough.
I'm not handsome.
It's not me it's them.
I'm not white.
I'm often viewed as poor.
That one time, I didn't fight for her. (Literally)
I'm too quiet.
I was told once that "we" needed to work on our own relationship with God... (separately)
I should just find a potato and tell people that's my girlfriend..
#foreveralone
I'm not Christian enough.
I'm not handsome.
It's not me it's them.
I'm not white.
I'm often viewed as poor.
That one time, I didn't fight for her. (Literally)
I'm too quiet.
I was told once that "we" needed to work on our own relationship with God... (separately)
I should just find a potato and tell people that's my girlfriend..
#foreveralone
Are you creating or IMITATING?
I don´t know what Robin W. would say about it... "
I don´t know what Robin W. would say about it... "
"To create, that will be
a constant struggle
." - Robin Williams
"
I'm not tall enough.
I'm not Christian enough.
I'm not handsome.
It's not me it's them.
I'm not white.
I'm often viewed as poor.
That one time, I didn't fight for her. (Literally)
I'm too quiet.
I was told once that "we" needed to work on our own relationship with God... (separately)
I should just find a potato and tell people that's my girlfriend..
So "she" is here:
#foreveralone
I'm not Christian enough.
I'm not handsome.
It's not me it's them.
I'm not white.
I'm often viewed as poor.
That one time, I didn't fight for her. (Literally)
I'm too quiet.
I was told once that "we" needed to work on our own relationship with God... (separately)
I should just find a potato and tell people that's my girlfriend..
So "she" is here:
#foreveralone
I wish I knew more about Jesus and His innermost thoughts about this:
"Mat 19:12 Some people are unable to marry because of birth defects or because of what someone has done to their bodies. Others stay single for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Anyone who can accept this teaching should do so." "
"Mat 19:12 Some people are unable to marry because of birth defects or because of what someone has done to their bodies. Others stay single for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Anyone who can accept this teaching should do so." "
Meanwhile, I think a woman hit the right key here: (The 17 And Only Reasons Why You’re Still Single | Thought Catalog)
The17 And Only Reasons Why You’re Still Single
Thiscomes from a woman(The 17 And Only Reasons Why You’re Still Single | Thought Catalog)
1.You are selfish.
Youlove who you are and what you do. You love your freedom and alonetime, but if you’re not willing to give it up even a little, unlessJohnny Depp rides into your life on a Harley or Megan Fox bumps intoyou in the grocery store, you may not find yourself in a relationshipanytime soon.
2.You are messy.
Noone wants to date a slob. It’s not as big of a deal when you arejust dating, but living with a hoarder is pretty disgusting. Guys,clean your bathroom, that brown ring in your toilet isn’tappealing, and ladies at least throw all your clothes into the closetbefore you have a sleepover.
3.You work nights or weekends.
Iunderstand this one, because I work in the entertainment industry,but men who are looking for wives don’t think of bartenders and DJsas good material, and women looking for husbands don’t exactlythink nightclubs are great places to meet one. More importantly, nothaving the same schedule is a huge strain on a relationship. I wouldnever give up my passion or change my career for someone, but nightsand weekends are when most people are free to spend time together.It’s a tough one to work out.
4.You put everything on social media. (( Ha! Ha! Ha! ))
Noone really cares what you ate for all three of your meals today and anew relationship certainly doesn’t need all of your 800 cyberfriends weighing in on it.
5.You can’t make clear decisions or voice your opinion.
Noone likes playing the “whatever you want” game. If you want to goget Chinese food, speak up. If you hate scary movies, please don’tsay, “yeah sure that’s fine.” The point of dating is to get toknow someone, so please let the person you are dating actually hearyour opinion.
6.You live at home.
Howare you supposed to bring a date back to your place?? “Oh thatsjust my dad, wanna go up to my childhood bedroom? Sorry if thestuffed animals are creepy, I’ll just throw them in the closet.”Eeehhhh no thanks.
7.You are married to your friends.
Friendshipsare one of life’s most important gifts, but if every free secondyou have you are on conference calls with your 7 best high schoolbuddies, maybe it’s time for some space. No guy wants hisgirlfriend constantly all dolled up for “girls night” and nowoman wants to constantly be sharing her man with his old frat bros.At the very least include your partner into friend time.
8.You tell your mom everything.
Agirl that is close with her family is a huge turn on. A girl that isbest friends with her mother is a red flag. No man wants hispotential mother in law to know every intimate detail about him. Goahead tell her that you are really happy with our intimaterelationship, but please refrain from telling her about that specialthing I do with my tongue…it just makes me feel reallyuncomfortable at family dinners.
9.You self-sabotage.
Okso maybe you are really busy this month at work or the holidays arearound the corner and you’re strapped for cash, but these are notgood enough reasons to deny yourself. Stop finding excuses to not putyourself out there. You can find 2 hours in your week for a dinnerand just skip the Starbucks runs for a few extra dollars. Give datinga real try, before you find a reason why it won”t work.
10.You tell your boys everything.
Nowoman wants her boyfriend’s friends to know her secrets. Thosephotos she sent you are just for you. That thing she likes, is justfor you to know. Please don’t belittle your intimacy by sharing itwith your friends. After all, what if she becomes your wife someday?Do you really want them to have seen her shower selfie?
11.You move too quickly.
Relationshipsare delicate, especially in the beginning. Take it slowly. Showinterest, call, let the person know that you are thinking of them,but please leave the ring and children jokes at the door, or you maybe seeing the door more quickly than you deserve.
12.Conversely, you move too slowly.
Slowand steady wins the race, but if you have a great first date thenwait too long to call, the other party may assume that you areuninterested, risking them losing interest in you. There is also apretty good chance that you are not the only person who they’replanning dates with, so if you don’t follow up properly, someoneelse may scoop up your potential Mr./Mrs. Right. And just so we areclear, a follow-up is a phone call a day or two later, thanking theother party and planning a future date. Text messages do not suffice.
13.You constantly talk about your ex.
Everyonehas baggage, hell, some of us have full luggage sets. Some things mayneed to be spoken about, some things that you’ve learned you wantor don’t want in your next relationship can be useful information.Constantly bringing up the ex, worse yet, in a negative way, speaksvolumes about how ready you are to be dating. No one wants to be withsomeone who wants to be with someone else.
14.You don’t like yourself.
Youknow that annoying friend who is perfectly attractive, but stilltalks about how fat or ugly he or she is? Yeah, picture someone youare trying to sleep with constantly talking about how gross they are.After awhile, you may actually convince me that I shouldn’t want tosleep with you.
15.You’re a flirt.
Everygirl wants her friends to like her man, but she doesn’t want tofeel like her man is trying to get her friends into bed. Be nice toyour partner’s friends, but lap sitting and late-night texting istoo far. And never, under any circumstances, admit that you wouldsleep with any of them!
16.You don’t ask enough questions.
It’sgreat if you can talk about yourself and your interests, but if youdon’t show a genuine attentiveness to your partner, they are goingto get the impression that you are more interested in datingyourself.
17.You have unrealisticexpectations.
Let’sbe honest. Perfection doesn’t exist and real people havereal flaws that extend past a Jessica Alba-type girl-next-door, who’sawkwardness and clumsiness are her only shortcomings. Real life hasmessy, dirty, hard-to-deal-with issues, and you’re not perfecteither. So stop holding on to some Hollywoodized ideal. Peopleare real and a lot of their beauty is in those imperfections. Find agood one and hold on to them.
The 17 And Only Reasons Why You’re Still Single | Thought Catalog
The17 And Only Reasons Why You’re Still Single
Thiscomes from a woman(The 17 And Only Reasons Why You’re Still Single | Thought Catalog)
1.You are selfish.
Youlove who you are and what you do. You love your freedom and alonetime, but if you’re not willing to give it up even a little, unlessJohnny Depp rides into your life on a Harley or Megan Fox bumps intoyou in the grocery store, you may not find yourself in a relationshipanytime soon.
2.You are messy.
Noone wants to date a slob. It’s not as big of a deal when you arejust dating, but living with a hoarder is pretty disgusting. Guys,clean your bathroom, that brown ring in your toilet isn’tappealing, and ladies at least throw all your clothes into the closetbefore you have a sleepover.
3.You work nights or weekends.
Iunderstand this one, because I work in the entertainment industry,but men who are looking for wives don’t think of bartenders and DJsas good material, and women looking for husbands don’t exactlythink nightclubs are great places to meet one. More importantly, nothaving the same schedule is a huge strain on a relationship. I wouldnever give up my passion or change my career for someone, but nightsand weekends are when most people are free to spend time together.It’s a tough one to work out.
4.You put everything on social media. (( Ha! Ha! Ha! ))
Noone really cares what you ate for all three of your meals today and anew relationship certainly doesn’t need all of your 800 cyberfriends weighing in on it.
5.You can’t make clear decisions or voice your opinion.
Noone likes playing the “whatever you want” game. If you want to goget Chinese food, speak up. If you hate scary movies, please don’tsay, “yeah sure that’s fine.” The point of dating is to get toknow someone, so please let the person you are dating actually hearyour opinion.
6.You live at home.
Howare you supposed to bring a date back to your place?? “Oh thatsjust my dad, wanna go up to my childhood bedroom? Sorry if thestuffed animals are creepy, I’ll just throw them in the closet.”Eeehhhh no thanks.
7.You are married to your friends.
Friendshipsare one of life’s most important gifts, but if every free secondyou have you are on conference calls with your 7 best high schoolbuddies, maybe it’s time for some space. No guy wants hisgirlfriend constantly all dolled up for “girls night” and nowoman wants to constantly be sharing her man with his old frat bros.At the very least include your partner into friend time.
8.You tell your mom everything.
Agirl that is close with her family is a huge turn on. A girl that isbest friends with her mother is a red flag. No man wants hispotential mother in law to know every intimate detail about him. Goahead tell her that you are really happy with our intimaterelationship, but please refrain from telling her about that specialthing I do with my tongue…it just makes me feel reallyuncomfortable at family dinners.
9.You self-sabotage.
Okso maybe you are really busy this month at work or the holidays arearound the corner and you’re strapped for cash, but these are notgood enough reasons to deny yourself. Stop finding excuses to not putyourself out there. You can find 2 hours in your week for a dinnerand just skip the Starbucks runs for a few extra dollars. Give datinga real try, before you find a reason why it won”t work.
10.You tell your boys everything.
Nowoman wants her boyfriend’s friends to know her secrets. Thosephotos she sent you are just for you. That thing she likes, is justfor you to know. Please don’t belittle your intimacy by sharing itwith your friends. After all, what if she becomes your wife someday?Do you really want them to have seen her shower selfie?
11.You move too quickly.
Relationshipsare delicate, especially in the beginning. Take it slowly. Showinterest, call, let the person know that you are thinking of them,but please leave the ring and children jokes at the door, or you maybe seeing the door more quickly than you deserve.
12.Conversely, you move too slowly.
Slowand steady wins the race, but if you have a great first date thenwait too long to call, the other party may assume that you areuninterested, risking them losing interest in you. There is also apretty good chance that you are not the only person who they’replanning dates with, so if you don’t follow up properly, someoneelse may scoop up your potential Mr./Mrs. Right. And just so we areclear, a follow-up is a phone call a day or two later, thanking theother party and planning a future date. Text messages do not suffice.
13.You constantly talk about your ex.
Everyonehas baggage, hell, some of us have full luggage sets. Some things mayneed to be spoken about, some things that you’ve learned you wantor don’t want in your next relationship can be useful information.Constantly bringing up the ex, worse yet, in a negative way, speaksvolumes about how ready you are to be dating. No one wants to be withsomeone who wants to be with someone else.
14.You don’t like yourself.
Youknow that annoying friend who is perfectly attractive, but stilltalks about how fat or ugly he or she is? Yeah, picture someone youare trying to sleep with constantly talking about how gross they are.After awhile, you may actually convince me that I shouldn’t want tosleep with you.
15.You’re a flirt.
Everygirl wants her friends to like her man, but she doesn’t want tofeel like her man is trying to get her friends into bed. Be nice toyour partner’s friends, but lap sitting and late-night texting istoo far. And never, under any circumstances, admit that you wouldsleep with any of them!
16.You don’t ask enough questions.
It’sgreat if you can talk about yourself and your interests, but if youdon’t show a genuine attentiveness to your partner, they are goingto get the impression that you are more interested in datingyourself.
17.You have unrealisticexpectations.
Let’sbe honest. Perfection doesn’t exist and real people havereal flaws that extend past a Jessica Alba-type girl-next-door, who’sawkwardness and clumsiness are her only shortcomings. Real life hasmessy, dirty, hard-to-deal-with issues, and you’re not perfecteither. So stop holding on to some Hollywoodized ideal. Peopleare real and a lot of their beauty is in those imperfections. Find agood one and hold on to them.
The 17 And Only Reasons Why You’re Still Single | Thought Catalog
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