If we are not supposed to judge afater the flesh then why cant that be our out? Since when am I bound to offer my opinion?
For example, if my mother in law make green beans and she asks if they are good? But I dont think they were good (I wanted to gag) but all that God made was good, so why should I be obligated to speak contrary to his word on those things? Is it lying to speak His truth (over my own preference)?