Totally agree with what you are saying, and yes totally because God said so
I have two gay friends and a couple fo gay family members and have talked to several younger gay men on here who asked for advice. If they are seeking help, I'm happy to do what I can and never said I wouldn't. I agree that slapping them with commandments and not showing them the way after is wrong. My issue is with those who want to justify it as NOT sin and force this perspective on those who disagree. It is sin whether we like it or not. But I totally agree with pretty much all of what you said.
I also give advice and help any other who is struggling with any sin if I feel qualified to do so. If not, I refer them to someone who is more qualified. Again, this is not about condemnation (speaking for myself), but as we can see from this thread, many are attempting to justify their sin and I can't be on board with this no matter the sin.