I used to belong to MOPS, we had some single mom's in our group. You bring the kids but I think most of them have a place for the kids, so you get some alone time.
That really stinks though.
I admit I haven't actually gone to MOPS- I've heard good things about it and I'm not opposed to going. I'm just frustrated because I not only need something different for myself, but I've seen proof around here that others could really benefit from the type of group I'm thinking of as well.
Things we do have here:
low-income housing (but only the apartment complex where I live now, and it's just enough outside of town to make transportation super difficult)
a taxi service or two (which isn't useful to most people who live out here because hello, we live in low-income housing because we're broke)
A zillion churches, some of which band together for Love Inc., which helps with furniture or food or other desperate situations
pregnancy center, which helps with baby items
MOPS
Social Services, which helps, but they can only do so much
....there could be more. I don't know.
But what I see a real need for here is something that would really HELP single moms (and dads!)- not just once or twice, not just to get them through a few days or a super bad patch. Some way to get them on their feet- a way to meet with each other and encourage each other and even complain to each other if that's what needs to happen. Trading baby/kid items, or clothes, or furniture, or basic household necessities, so what little money they have can go towards bills or whatever. Trading services; babysitting, transportation, moving, cleaning...all the things that would be so much easier with two people. Bible studies. Someone to call and cry to in the middle of the night when your kids are sick and you haven't slept in two days and you're broke and your power is going to be shut off and your ex has been difficult and you haven't had a break in weeks...
Just something that's available all the time for single parents so they can breathe a little easier and gain strength to stand alone and hopefully, ultimately, be better parents for not being constantly stressed out and scared.
Something super simple like that...
um...excuse the rambling. But I now have an idea.
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