Those who are finding issue with people asking for examples now days of tongues and such, please just pause for a second and hear me out.
Your initial reaction perceives such questioners as attacking you, or being mean, or being malicious.
Please put these reactions on hold for just a wee tad second.
Just for a wee tad second assume these questions are being asked out of love and a desire for truth and right spiritual practice.
These questioners are trying to make you compare what's happening today, to what happens in the Bible. They're hoping that if you see a major difference between what you practice, and what the Bible shows, that maybe you'll change your practice that isn't in the Bible.
I was once in the shoes of someone who viewed these questioners as mean, malicious, and attacking.
But then I paused.
Then I listened.
Then I did ask myself...
"Hmmm is what I'm experiencing a solid match with what's in the Bible?"
And guess what!
What I was experiencing wasn't a solid match with what's in the Bible.
Now I'm not saying you'll reach the same conclusion as me.
On the other hand, if you're walking in error, maybe it's worth putting your negative perceptions of the questioners aside for a wee tad second or two, so you can take an honest inventory of things.
We always hear about people who cling to their "traditions". But often those who rant the most about clinging to traditions, are the MOST guilty of clinging to a man made tradition that isn't in the Bible. Maybe you're afraid to let go? Maybe you're afraid to admit you've been wrong all these years? If that is the case, then humble yourself and change. I did.
If after an honest examination of yourself, you see no reason to change, then carry on, and disengage from the discussion. It's clear you're in faith about where you practice and stand.