For me, I'm not particularly in any need of finding a girlfriend, as I am rather happy being single, right now. Don't get me wrong, though......I wouldn't mind being with someone, nor do I mind getting married. I just feel that there's a lot of things I need to manage in my life, before I can even
consider dating. Plus, I feel I'm rather lacking some needed qualities in being able to keep a relation"ship" from being a sunken "ship".(e.g.: bad puns/poor humor)
However, even if I were to never date nor marry...I feel I'd be cool with that. I tend to like my solace in solitude, with no one bothering me, no yelling, no arguments, no need to focus so much on too many problems that may come from others(not that I wouldn't want to be helpful and friendly to others around me, that is), just me and the sweetness of the ambience of my own home....