Yeah, yall can totally not read this, it's ok. I don't care, I'm posting it anyway.
So, I kinda get the feeling that when she texted me back saying, "You make me so incredibly happy " that she is ready for me to say that I love her. Honestly, as much as I look forward to doing this, it's uber scary for me. I guess it should be, right? I mean, it feels right, but its my suspicion that because everything seems so perfect that I would have much regret if I messed things up by moving too fast. I want to wait and not rush anything. Anything. I also want her to know how much those words mean when I say them. It's not like this is a first relationship for either of us. Choosing to move slow. I really think it's the best thing in the long run.
So, I kinda get the feeling that when she texted me back saying, "You make me so incredibly happy " that she is ready for me to say that I love her. Honestly, as much as I look forward to doing this, it's uber scary for me. I guess it should be, right? I mean, it feels right, but its my suspicion that because everything seems so perfect that I would have much regret if I messed things up by moving too fast. I want to wait and not rush anything. Anything. I also want her to know how much those words mean when I say them. It's not like this is a first relationship for either of us. Choosing to move slow. I really think it's the best thing in the long run.
1) You gotta play it cool. Nothing suits a woman better than her man playing it cool. And mix it up with some cool moves. That will make an impression on any woman, even if there are any awkward moments. Check out my cousin brother here -
2) The worst you can ever do is to behave like a cookie monster when he sees a cookie. That's a red flag. Never.Ever.Do.That. If you are not sure how much is too much, give yourself a reality check by watching this video.
[video=youtube;I5e6ftNpGsU]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I5e6ftNpGsU[/video]
As you should have realized by now, women are not cookies. So if you suffocate her or if you are too fast, she may run away. Give her time. Like I said earlier, play it cool homie.
I think this would be a great thread (a.k.a., When is it ok to say i love you?). In my opinion it sounds like you might still have some reservations about committing (besides just the fear of committing). There's always a 'window' where its not too late and not too early to commit, but if you still have doubts then its probably still too early.
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I wish you good luck, my brother. I pray that God takes charge of the relationship that is blossoming between you two.